i know. main problem is we live in Somerset so is difficukt to arrange time off to get to the wedding fayres. did ask my sister, her x boyf and my mam to go to one a few months ago, but was a disaster!
my mam and sis both had really different views of the place, then my sis went really over the top and got us info sent from all the places she liked!
and she's not impressed that we are only having our parents, siblings, and my best friend and her husband and kids (only as her daughter is bridesmaid) at the ceremony. which adds up to around 23 people. thats really is more than enough for us, as we both are really shy and don't want a lot of people there. i think people get to involved and forget who's wedding it is!
we are planning on having a larger reception possibly between 100-150 people.
is yours going to be a big wedding?