ARGH! My SIL just caught my 15 year old nephew smoking for the 2nd time. How would you handle?? Looking for all advice!
Read the thread and have to say "punishment" by way of Forcing smoking till they puke, makes ME sick, UGH!
Why not a conversation about it, followed by loss of all "extra's" like tv, ipod, cell, etc for 7 days. To show that there was a consequence for getting caught 2nd time.
I think all kids experiment and the goal to get them to stop is even tougher with all the peer pressure and sense of wanting to "fit in"
Are there other issues going on here, dating started (self esteem)?
Where was he smoking? IN house? if that was case I think I'd go even harder with the consequences.
Personally I think I'd try the "serious" talk of the Health risks and THEN I'd try to get a hold of a video/literature (american cancer society) of someone suffering the ill effects, ie cancer and watch it together, "educate" him rather than just demanding he stop.
Parenting is SUCH a hard job!
Wanna just wish "good luck"
Forcing someone to smoke as punishment is even MORE exposure, scares me silly!
ALL CANCER SUCKS, I know first hand, unfortunately!
