horseshowmom
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All you people who say that this is par for the course in college: I really want to know where these colleges are that tolerate this kind of behavior. I went to a college where I had some real "personalities" teaching, but no one was openly bigoted or abusive. It just would not have been tolerated. Now, granted, I went to a fairly prestigious school, but seriously, don't students complain in other schools?
...and of course, OP should guide her daughter. That's her job, even over the age of 18. She just shouldn't speak to administration and complain. That's the DD's job.
I agree. My daughter had some that were great and some that were first class jerks.
Her freshman year she had a Chemisty class for majors that had 500 students in it. The lab classes were broken down into smaller sections, but the papers were just turned into a box (I think all the sections turned them in there). After they were graded, you dug through the box to find yours. Several of DD's came up missing, and she was given 0's.
She discussed it with me, and I gave her some advice (including don't let them intimidate you if they try). They did try.

First she (Dept. head) basically accused her of not turning them in. She had carried her laptop with her, pulled the papers up, and showed them to the Dept. head. Then the dept. head made a sarcastic remark about the situation (don't remember what). At that point, DD also brought up how papers are put into a big box to turn in and then gotten back from there after grading and how everybody's grade was visible to everybody else and how that would seem to be an invation of privacy (she had all A's but that was still a good place to put that).
The Dept. head's tone changed immediately, and at the next class everybody was informed that their papers would no longer be handled the way they had in the past. Also, DD never had another paper that got lost and even more amazingly, her "lost" papers were somehow found.
After that, the Dept. head even tried to talk DD into changing to a Chemistry major.


