Mackenzie Click-Mickelson
Chugging along the path of life
- Joined
- Oct 23, 2015
Some stick to the apps as a measure of security.I do exchange - it's another "check" for me. Someone who isn't cheating will be more inclined to share his digits. Whereas someone who is trying to hide that? Will not be so eager to dish out a number when I COULD be a crazy chick and may actually CALL the number - and the the wife asks questions etc etc ... so for me? I won't go on a date without a number, generally. Unless my super sleuthing didn't pick up any other red flags.
My past coworker who I mentioned posts quite a bit of her experiences on FB..oh the screen shots she sends me, but she's had to do her fair share of blocking on her cell and has switched back to mostly waiting for a good while before disclosing her cell number.
As far as giving our their number it's not a bad thought about the cheating part but people can have multiple numbers, they also carry on affairs with their cell and the spouse is none the wiser. Some cheaters are just that bold and smartphones have ways of hiding stuff much more than they used to. If it's worked out thus far for you why change it, just saying the nature of giving out your cell, especially these days, doesn't mean you're not otherwise with someone (or someones) else. That's an unfortunate thing truly though.
My husband just got a new phone the S21 and it doesn't have any notification lights around it (I think Samsung started that with the S10??), you have to actually install an app that will mimic the notification lights (so an incoming phone call will only be visible if the phone is face up without the notification light of a missed phone call if you have the phone on silent). We often have our phones on silent or vibrate but with the way spam and spoofing calls are it's just as easy for us to assume it's that. He also in particular gets calls from the Community Blood Center often. And in the last few months car dealerships since we've been car shopping a bit. All that to say I don't have any feelings that something is going on that I don't know about with my husband (or he feels with me), just saying sad as it is giving your phone number out in the past may have been more of an indication you aren't cheating but these days I'm not so sure
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