Arfy,
Just a few words of friendly advice:
1. Whatever you did to get banned, don't do it again!
2. If you offended a host or staff member, make a point of apologizing.
3. If you offended another player, make a point of apologizing.
4. Think before you say stuff in VMK. If you see someone doing or saying something that you know is wrong, ask them to stop.
5. Help other players with quests and stuff like that, but also with following VMK values.
6. If you see a conversation going in a bad direction, get out of the room immediately!
I'm sure you've heard this stuff again and again, and I'm not trying to be a nudge. I just hate to see folks get themselves banned. All of us invest a lot of time and energy in our game play, and to have it taken away for just a momentary lapse of reason is a shame.
We all say and do dumb things, here and in real life. Just do your best to minimize the dumb things you say, and help others to stay the course as well.
I look forward to seeing you in game!