Have you never watched a pornographic movie? Your partner, your kids? I'd find it hard to believe that both questions would be a "no". So it's okay to watch (voyeur), but not okay on the flip side?
I cannot tell you how much I disagree about this statement, I wouldn't exactly call Jimmy Buffet an ideal persona. I have tattoos, and I've never regretted any of them (nor my piercings).
I have no doubt that you disagree with my statement, however do not expect to plaster yourself with excessive tattoos and piercings and not have others formulate an opinion. People make judgements for good or for ill every day. One doesn't do things that call attention to themselves and then complain that people notice. As for the porn; its exhibitionistic and in this day and age, DANGEROUS.