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[binny]

I have 2 former sisters in law that I dont like. One is just plain evil And I dont joke about that. She is pure evil. Im not a violent person at all but what she has done recently could change my stance on that. I have never felt such anger towards anyone.

If she was just annoying (like she used to be) I could handle her.



Im sorry youre having a hard time with your SIL I know how difficult it can be.

 

[LuluLovesDisney]

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[LuluLovesDisney]

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[tiggersmom2]

I win guys...trust me.

 

[SamRoc]

They're energy vampires who suck your happiness and energy and it's not healthy. You're much better off without those people.

I couldn't agree with you more. I have 7 sister in laws and only dislike one of them. I have known her for about 25 years and never did like her. We saw eachother twice this year for family birthdays and she only lives about 20 blocks from me. I think what ended any kind of feeling I could have had for her was after 9/11 and she made a horrible comment about the wives of firemen(which she is). She made this comment in front of my dd who was 12 at the time and still can't believe how evil this aunt is. I stay far away from her, she just gives out negative vibes.

 

[Jakesmom504]

Don't really care for both of my SIL. We used to be close to one but she turned out to be just like my MIL who I would love to see move to another country!!!! I could write a book and probably become rich with all the things that she has done to me, let alone my family! In fact it is really quite comical.....she didn't want me to date my DH because she thought I was going out with him for his money (he didn't have money, they do), funny...we are the only one of their kids that they haven't been able "BUY!" SIL's are contolled by MIL because they are basically "taken care of!" The absolute worst part of it is they treat my 18 month old DS like crap! DH is fed up! It took him until my DS was born but he finally saw the light I'm so proud!

 

[Kimberly]

Wow. That was an earful, and a sticky situation. I certainly feel horrible for her child if anything, no one at any age should have to put up with her antics. My best advice to you is to not let her walk all over you and just tell her honestly how you feel. She's obviously crying for attention, so I doubt she'd entirely leave you alone if you said that. But I don't think I'd even take that chance because of the child involved...

Ugh... where to start. I'm so sorry.

 

[Jenn Lynn]

I love my SIL. We get along great.

However, I still have a Brother and a BIL who could get married.

 

[staci]

Well my brother has a girlfriend, who I am starting to think will be around for awhile

I think she is horrible.

He told us all kinds of things about her, how high maintenance she is, how insecure she is, how much money she spends (700$ in one weekend shopping - she is 20!)

But after giving us the horror stories, he refuses to let her go. I feel badly because I know she knows I dislike her, and I dont think it is fair that he tells us these things so that we dislike her, but then stay with her and let her know that his family doesnt approve.

It will be very uncomfortable if she joins our family. I want a sis in law that I can go shopping with, and share clothes and recipes, etc etc etc. But I dont shop at Prada, I dont wear size 1/2, she wouldnt touch uncooked food if her life depended on it......

But my ACTUAL sis in law is awesome, she is still young, only 18, but we get along pretty good and it is nice that she is now getting to be more of an 'adult'.

 

[graygables]

Where can I start??? Grab a Pepsi and some popcorn!!!

My next older brother married a nutjob. She screams at the kids all the time (they are now 17 and 14) and she STILL makes them stand in the corner when they are "bad"!!! She just met my mom on their driveway with a bunch of my niece's toys and a few things my mom had given them for wedding gifts and said, "You told me if I ever wanted to get rid of these to give them back to you, so here". She also give my niece "collectible" Barbies every year for Christmas, lets her tear off the paper, carefully, then immediately puts them away in a closet as her "college fund". My nephew is a senior and she went in last week and cleared out his room to get it ready to become my brother's office when my nephew goes away to school. After I divorced my abusive, child-molesting ex, she told my parents to tell me that she didn't want me around her children b/c I was a "bad influence" b/c I was divorced. She must have forgotten the part where SHE was divorced from her married-at-18 hubby b/c she caught him in bed with her best friend. Come to find out...she had refused to sleep with him in the first place...her own husband!

Oldest brother married a nutjob (sensing a pattern here? ). She was literally born in a teepee, although her parents are not native Americans, her dad is a wannabe who stays on peyote most of the time. She and my bro have popped out 6 children (2 of whom followed my youngest 2 and she even "borrowed" my youngest's middle name for one of them) all are "homeschooled" (BTW, I do homeschool, I'm all for it, but she barely keeps them fed, much less educated). Recently, my 10yo nephew ran over the 6yo's feet with the mower/tractor and she had to have surgery to re-attach toes and such. Within a few days, she was running (sort of) around outside barefoot among the cow patties again. They live in squalor and disarray. My bro says they teach "gun control" in their school...they "teach the kids how to control 'em!" They also play poor all the time and even get free or very cheap pizzas on Sundays by telling the pizza place it's for their church. They get people to give them all kinds of things, never go on vacation, only to visit more weird family, and they are financially LOADED. I must say that this brother is a much more willing participant with his idiot wife than my other one.

DH has a sister who is a real user, climber, wannabe. She latched right onto me when he and I first met b/c I had grown up in Europe, so certainly I knew all of the "right things". She had me give her etiquette lessons, basically. They live about 30 minutes away, FIL & MIL do not drive much at all, but she won't bring her 2 kids to come visit them but maybe 3 or 4 times a year. She will, however, take MIL along to WDW to babysit said kids so she and her DH can have a good time without them. She also refused to drive 30 minutes "out of the way" to drop MIL off at the NEXT idiot sister's house to visit them and their newborn. She made that BIL drive "halfway" to pick MIL up.

Now, to the cream of our crop...DH's youngest sister. She's been a loser pretty much her whole life, sleeping w/ guys trying to get PG so she could force them to marry her (apple doesn't fall far from the tree ), but was unsuccessful. Then, after one of her "episodes in bed" she had a revelation from God and got uber-holy. I mean, skirts, white socks, and black keds everywhere. She was unable to hold a steady job (too hot, too cold, too much sitting, too much standing, you get the idea) She lied to her parents that she was working at one place when I found out that she'd showed up once. Now, mind you, I am a Christian, was raised a Southern Baptist, but I'm not waaaaay out there on the right if you KWIM. She put herself on an online dating thing (no biggie, DH and I met online almost 11 years ago), but hooked up with a nutjob from (where else?) Orlando. He came to visit and he is Wormtongue from the Lord of the Rings movies without the Goth clothes! Heebie Jeebies. He USED to work for WDW, but quit b/c they hire gays, so now he works at a hospital in an "executive position" (that only pays $12 an hour, we learned). He is deeply in debt from having lost everything to an ex in a divorce and for CHARGING donations to missionaries for his church. Alrighty then. Then they go to Amish country for the day and future BIL and SIL are handing out religious tracts to the Amish and Mennonites!!!

So, they start their counseling and the preacher wants them to read this certain book that has a chapter about "marital relations". They both freak out, there is no way they are going to read this "nasty" book. AS IF they havent' both already done the wild thing more times than anyone can count! Whatever, they wind up getting married here by a JP and have the church wedding in Florida...where my in-laws wouldn't/couldn't go!!! So, she gets PG right off the bat (how'd THAT happen???) and they are poverty stricken. On welfare, but they still can buy a house. Still racking up those charges to missionaries. So, she pops out the first kid and I sent them a BUNCH of clothes in all sizes, since they are poor and I know how showers go. I found out that they THREW AWAY several outfits b/c they had Disney characters on them and giving them away to Goodwill or whatnot would have just "spread the evil". I was warned to never give them anything Disney again. No problem-o...I won't give them ANYTHING ever again, the ingrates. So, she just popped out child number 2, before the 1st one even turned 1yo!!! I just don't think they have any business being on welfare, keeping several cats and rabbits, and popping out the kids (they believe birth control is a sin, but can't seem to figure out where babies come from). They have left several churches b/c they aren't strict enough (the last one said that it was a sin for men and women to swim together or to even wear swimsuits) They currently attend a church that believes that before the flood, humans had water and not blood in their veins. Every time I've gone to WDW, they want to come pick us up at our hotel and take us to church...no thank you!!! Last time, they "agreed" they could meet us at DTD, but I just told them we were too busy. Last thing I need is Wormtongue and Madam Nutjob telling me I'm going to hell for wanting to see Mickey!!!

I can easily say that I am the only normal SIL in this entire family!!!

 

[pfishgirl]

well my X sister in law is just plain witchy..minus the W and replace it with a B.. and I mean like ALLthe time...she gives off an attitude even when she is trying to be nice..

 

[we3disneygo]

the last time I saw both of my sis in laws, they both got up went to the bathroom .............they come back..........????????????????? 30 yr.+ being that caddy, we had our vacation pictures with us from wdw and they just don't understand the concept of family for vacation at all?? so that pretty much did it for me trying to get along.......... they didn't really start anything they were just very snotty and the getting up to go to the other room to talk about us ?????? we decided to go......................the last family dinner we all had there I was left stuck doing all the dishes! wouldn't want poor so- and -so to wash or dry!!

 

[Marseeya]

I have two, and one is only 14 (my DS's age). I love her to death, although she annoys me as any teenage girl does.

My BIL's wife was trouble from day one. I honestly can't say I hate her, because I have a rule that I stay away from people who cause a lot of drama and trouble. I don't need that hassle in my life. Fortunately, my DH is on the same page as far as that's concerned. Plus they live far away.

It's sad, though, because as a result, he has no relationship with his brother and we don't know our nieces and nephews. He tried getting closer to his brother at one point, but he had to go through her to do it. She intercepted every phone call and every e-mail, so DH just gave up.

Another thing she did, where if I ever do see her, I'm going to let her have it with both barrels, is she and BIL had to live with my FIL for a while to help get them back on their feet. They completely trashed FIL's house around him and totally treated him like dirt. Then to make matters worse, they wouldn't allow the kids to even speak to him AT. ALL. They really demoralized him, but he finally wised up and kicked them out.

 

[ItsonlyExperiment626]

Yes!!!!!!!!

 

[tone.def]

I'm going to out on a limb here and say "OH YEAH"!!!

Please don't bash me for being politically incorrect here on this one, but she married my brother when her student Visa (she's from Japan) was about to expire... and she doesn't allow my brother to spend time with his family...

They've been married close to 10 years now, when they were dating, she refused to meet the family and then one day I got an email saying "I got married, don't tell Dad". They were living in Vancouver and in 1999, they had my first nephew. Shortly thereafter, my brother had to come to Toronto on business and I was living not far from here back then and he told me where he was staying, so I showed up at the hotel and surprised them. She freaked out and didn't want to come out of the hotel room and didn't want me in. My brother and I went out for dinner, the whole time he's trying to explain to me what a wonderful woman she is

My Mom and Dad heard about what she did and so my Dad hops on a plane, flies 5 hours across the country and shows up at their doorstep, determined to find out what's going on. In true Japanese hospitality, she welcomes him in, makes him dinner, treats him like a King and then asks him where he's staying. My Dad said she wanted to stay there and she flew into a tangent about how he had to leave. So my Dad checks into a hotel and spent the next day with my brother trying to get it into his head that she's wacko. Didn't work, she got pregnant and gave birth to my other nephew in 2001.

In January 2002, I make arrangements to go to Vancouver, I had 2 friends from high school out there and intended on spending the bulk of my time with them, but when I get there, my brother said that she would allow me to stay at their place for 2 nights only (I'd like to point out that her family would visit from Japan for 2-4 months every year)... so the first night I'm there, she made herself sparse and wouldn't let me hold the baby. The second night I'm there she starts a very heated feud with my brother about how he's such a bad father for being a workoholic and how he's never home and she has to do everything with the kids... Wow, I watched my brother take it up the butt from her and I flew off the handle and her about how nuts-o she is and then she tried to claw my face off, well - I'm the one with the black belt, not her. I was so glad to get out of there and get away from her drama...

Fast-forward to this year, my brother got transferred from Vancouver to New York - I haven't seen her and the kids since Jan 2002, my younger sister has never met her nephews and my parents have seen them once since. So while the moving process is going on, she decides to take the kids to Japan to visit her parents (this is April) and my brother invites me to come help him b/c New York is so close to Toronto and she's not going to be around and he needs help... blah, blah, blah... I willingly do it without issue at all and her and the kids were supposed to fly back to Vancouver in June... June passes, she didn't show, July, nope, not yet, just as I'm getting ready to go to Osaka in August myself and drag my nephews back, she surfaces in New York and all is fine and dandy again.

I'm waiting for the next chapter to unfold...

 

[Disney Doll]

I have 2 good ones, one OK one and one nutjob. But I gotta tell you...my nutjob is nowhere near as bad as your nutjobs. Thanks for the perspective.

 

[Annie68]

I have tried for years to get along with my DH's sister, I finally have given up .

 

[Daxx]

Daxx's Wife here. I adore DH's sisters to no end but I HATE, HATE, HATE my brother's wife. I won't go into all the reasons why b/c there's not enough room on this board, let alone this thread.

All I can say is that they are getting a divorce, my brother is finally seeing her true colors and this divorce has brought my brother closer to the family ... as she had driven a wedge between him and our family.

Although we will never be "done" with her (b/c they have kids), I am glad that we won't have to deal w/her at every holiday and immediate family event!!!!! Unfortunately, we will have to deal w/her at things that bring both families together (ie: their kids bdays). But, I can suck it up for two days out of the year. She'll feel more uncomfortable than I will!!!!!

 

[castleview]

Don't want to use the word "hate" because it would imply that I waste my time thinking about her. Basically, mine thinks she should be the most important person in her DH's life and EVERYONE ELSE in his family's life.

I've ticked her off by marrying my DH, knowing how to cook, doing activities/sports that she doesn't do, having a slightly bigger house than her (don't worry they renovated to take care of that), and the biggest one...not revolving my life around hers. What was I thinking about putting my family before her feelings?

I guess I should have realized it wouldn't be good when she had screamed at DH for being so "wrapped up with me" when we were dating.

 

[iwantahemi]

Does anyone notice that you never see a thread from a man saying, I hate by brother-in-law or I have my mother-in-law. Interesting!!