OP here. Thanks for the responses! I really love the idea of being able to travel with just carry on if we were taking a shorter trip. No toiletries! My husband balked at that too, b/c he says he can use the toiletries that are provided by mousekeeping. Well, too bad the rest of us can't!
So I need some more support! Who else out there is loving their OL?
Oh but it's more than "just toiletries". It's my full size Olay Bath wash & my body scrubber shower thingy, band-aids & moleskin & blister block, slippers, Gas-X, Tums, Advil, DH's razor & shower mirror, "my" Dove shampoo & conditioner for color treated hair

, sunscreen, Q-tips....Captain Morgan

, wine glasses, coffee scoop & filters, a pair of sharp scissors, packing tape, rubber bands (never know what you have to McGyver), sewing kit, extra paper plates & sharp knives (we use studios), batteries, spray fan bottles (we go in the summer so it's HOT), lanyards & FP holders, pool bags, backpacks, collapsible coolers & blue ice... No resort provides all that!! YOU have to remember to BRING all that!!!!!!
My DH was a big doubter too. I went out & got a similar sized plastic bin & secretly started filling it with all this stuff I wanted to leave in FL.

I worked on my "collection" for months. I kept a list in my purse. Everytime I went to Target or TJMaxx or Wal-Mart I bought something off my list and put it in the bin. Ponchos, mini umbrellas, can coozies, I had a 1/2 empty mousse & I just bought a new full one for home ETC. Before long the bin was FULL and I showed it to DH. Once he had a visual it helped a lot I think. I figured if he said NO again to the OL I would just leave it packed for our trips like I do with our "camping bins" and we'd schlep it in a checked bag each time. But I was determined to NOT have to round up all this stuff every time we went. Thankfully this time he agreed that it made sense. We transferred it all to a large box to ship it down for our first trip when we were getting the OL. It weighed 45 Lbs when I took it to the UPS store!!

That is one full full-size suitcase or duffle. That right there cuts down immediately on 1 checked bag because that's how much crap we all schelp with us. I find when I'm not thinking about bringing a little bit of everything I can concentrate on JUST the clothes we may need & it's much quicker & less of an ordeal to pack.
LOOK!! You already have 50 on your poll who agree!!!