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[disneymama73]

Well, good luck-take your time- and think about things. My sister rushed into her divorce and agreed to all these crazy things, because "all I really want is the kids". FF, now it is all about how the kids have no money(small child support settlement/a decree that required they all move from MA to LI(which is a much more expensive place to live). My sister is still carrying his insurance 5 years later, there is no college fund for the kids(it was optional according to the judge), all tuition to their school is paid by my sister(her ex/family do not pick up one dime(because Public School is free, but you wouldn't send a dog there). So please be careful... You really have to not only look at it from today's prespective, but down the road too. Try to tie any increases in your DH salary to increases in the childsupport.

I really wish you the best Have you considered when you might do this? (Are you thinking after the holidays?) Good Luck Michele, and I hope it all works out for the best.
Terri

Thank you, Terri, for the great advice! I appreciate it. Yes, I am thinking about after the holidays.

 

[disneymama73]

I know I've posted this one before, but I just felt like seeing it again.

 

[willis37862]

Great pics everyone. I don't have any to post tonight just popping in to see what was going on. It's been a long day and I am ready for bed...............

 

[catycatcat4]

more pics plz!

 

[disneymama73]

Great pics everyone. I don't have any to post tonight just popping in to see what was going on. It's been a long day and I am ready for bed...............

Good night, Nichole!

Sweet dreams!

 

[willis37862]

Where did everyone go..........
I bet this will bring them back......
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[disneymama73]

I'm back! I'm back!

 

[disneymama73]

I still love love love this pic!

 

[willis37862]

I'm back! I'm back!

Hey Michele. How are you doing today? How was your weekend?
Yeah I like that picture you posted to...very nice.

 

[disneymama73]

Hey Michele. How are you doing today? How was your weekend?
Yeah I like that picture you posted to...very nice.

Hey, Nichole! I'm good. How are you? We went to a pumpkin farm yesterday. It was nice, it was horrible...it was typical.

Glad you liked the pic. I love how the spotlight is shaped like a heart.

 

[willis37862]

Hey, Nichole! I'm good. How are you? We went to a pumpkin farm yesterday. It was nice, it was horrible...it was typical.

Glad you liked the pic. I love how the spotlight is shaped like a heart.

Doing good. Had a nice weekend. Went into the mtns. to see the changing leaves. The only not so good is we are trying to work something out to meet DH's family at Myrtle Beach over christmas time. They drive me nuts so much. I always get so sick before I have to see them. Once I'm there it's usually better but the dread of it makes me ill. Oh well.

I never noticed that the shadow looks like a heart. Thats cool.

 

[disneymama73]

Doing good. Had a nice weekend. Went into the mtns. to see the changing leaves. The only not so good is we are trying to work something out to meet DH's family at Myrtle Beach over christmas time. They drive me nuts so much. I always get so sick before I have to see them. Once I'm there it's usually better but the dread of it makes me ill. Oh well.

I never noticed that the shadow looks like a heart. Thats cool.

Ugh, I'm so sorry to hear about your DH's family. I get the same way before having to see my inlaws. Especially my MIL. She drives me INSANE. How long will you have to spend with them?

 

[disneymama73]

Look, Nichole, he's blowing us a kiss.

 

[willis37862]

Ugh, I'm so sorry to hear about your DH's family. I get the same way before having to see my inlaws. Especially my MIL. She drives me INSANE. How long will you have to spend with them?

Three days out there but they are talking about coming here for a few days before. But I said no to them staying with us. I know that sounds mean but I can't take his parents and sister all in my little house. They are loud and overbearing and take over. I need them to stay in a hotel so I have somewhere to get away from them. His father likes to run the show, his mother just likes to complain so people feel sorry for her. She doesn't like me and always says snotty things about/to me. But she says she loves me. Anyway sorry to unload...............

 

[willis37862]

Look, Nichole, he's blowing us a kiss.

Right back at him.

 

[disneymama73]

Three days out there but they are talking about coming here for a few days before. But I said no to them staying with us. I know that sounds mean but I can't take his parents and sister all in my little house. They are loud and overbearing and take over. I need them to stay in a hotel so I have somewhere to get away from them. His father likes to run the show, his mother just likes to complain so people feel sorry for her. She doesn't like me and always says snotty things about/to me. But she says she loves me. Anyway sorry to unload...............

That's what friends are for, right?

 

[willis37862]

Thank you Michele.

Thank you for listening your a sweetie. I don't have anyone here to talk about it with. My mom just gets mad and wants to tell my MIL off and that wouldn't help any. I hate to burden my DH with how much his family bothers me. And as friends go I don't have any that are good listeners.

 

[disneymama73]

Thank you Michele.

Thank you for listening your a sweetie. I don't have anyone here to talk about it with. My mom just gets mad and wants to tell my MIL off and that wouldn't help any. I hate to burden my DH with how much his family bothers me. And as friends go I don't have any that are good listeners.

I can totally relate. My MIL is SO mean, and I just can't stand being around her at all. You can talk to me about this anytime!

 

[willis37862]

I can totally relate. My MIL is SO mean, and I just can't stand being around her at all. You can talk to me about this anytime!

Thank you! Has your MIL always been mean to you? Mine hasn't ever been fond of me and when I disagree with her on something that only makes it worse. She thought when we first got married that she would be part of it and make decisions for us. I don't think so. She had a place picked out for us to live in close to her. Which met us just married moving 9 hours from what I was use to and my family. She didn't care what I wanted. She got told quickly where we lived would be our choice. She never got over that.

 

[disneymama73]

Thank you! Has your MIL always been mean to you? Mine hasn't ever been fond of me and when I disagree with her on something that only makes it worse. She thought when we first got married that she would be part of it and make decisions for us. I don't think so. She had a place picked out for us to live in close to her. Which met us just married moving 9 hours from what I was use to and my family. She didn't care what I wanted. She got told quickly where we lived would be our choice. She never got over that.

Yes, mine has always been mean, but very subtle about it. She likes to announce to the family how I don't have a job. Um, I'm raising 3 children. She also likes to tell my girls how cleaning, cooking, etc. is "women's work." OMG, I can't stand her.

Your MIL sounds just lovely, too. What did we do to deserve this?