Official California Grill Open ADR Watch Thread

[budafam]

Will you be able to use dining credits for those $140 meals? Lol... so many questions, no answers

 

[WDWFANCBIIIME]

Will you be able to use dining credits for those $140 meals? Lol... so many questions, no answers

I would be willing to bet a lot of money that its not on the dining plan... Kinda like Citricos chefs domain

 

[midaroco]

Of course not, but I don't have a choice. And even if they did offer babysitting, I would not leave my kids. Most restaurants allow kids (Disney or not). Sorry ahead of time if my children misbehave, but it's a fact of life that it Can happen. You have to choose whether or not you want to dine out with kids.... If the answer is no, you are better off eating home.

I have to chime in here as I don't have children, but I do happen to enjoy them. I, too, find it very rude when a child misbehaves and the parent has either no control over them or chooses "not to engage". You don't really get to make that choice when you are in a public space infringing on the enjoyment of others. Sure, they are children and yes, they will act up. It is, however, the parent's responsibility to control it. The excuse - and yes it is an excuse for not wanting to instill good manners and proper decorum - that "they are just children" is not acceptable. "If we don't want to deal with it, we should stay home" seems like an irresponsible cop out.

 

[thestevied]

I have to chime in here as I don't have children, but I do happen to enjoy them. I, too, find it very rude when a child misbehaves and the parent has either no control over them or chooses "not to engage". You don't really get to make that choice when you are in a public space infringing on the enjoyment of others. Sure, they are children and yes, they will act up. It is, however, the parent's responsibility to control it. The excuse - and yes it is an excuse for not wanting to instill good manners and proper decorum - that "they are just children" is not acceptable. "If we don't want to deal with it, we should stay home" seems like an irresponsible cop out.

Yep

 

[Minnies Dad]

When I used the (new) Disney Dining website to check availability just now - there were no "AMs" or "PMs" next to the times - instead were two characters which looked Japanese to me. It lasted for about 5 minutes, then reverted back. Fascinating, especially that it came and went.

 

[Abby's Dad]

I have to chime in here as I don't have children, but I do happen to enjoy them. I, too, find it very rude when a child misbehaves and the parent has either no control over them or chooses "not to engage". You don't really get to make that choice when you are in a public space infringing on the enjoyment of others. Sure, they are children and yes, they will act up. It is, however, the parent's responsibility to control it. The excuse - and yes it is an excuse for not wanting to instill good manners and proper decorum - that "they are just children" is not acceptable. "If we don't want to deal with it, we should stay home" seems like an irresponsible cop out.

We raised a daughter, quite successfully I would guess (yes, we were successful in turning her into a Disney person!), and we took our daughter to many excellent restaurants as she was growing up. She knew what our expectations were for her, and she also knew that if she was not able to behave in an appropriate manner, that the meal would be over (as well as any additional fun stuff that might have been planned), and we would leave. Certainly, we had a right to be there, but so did all the other diners, who were paying good money for an enjoyable dinner. It was our responsibility to remove any distraction that we brought in with us - and hope for better luck next time. I can only remember needing to leave a restaurant one time (granted, she was a happy, well-cared for child - but temper tantrums or poor behavior were never acceptable).

 

[mrsap]

I have to chime in here as I don't have children, but I do happen to enjoy them. I, too, find it very rude when a child misbehaves and the parent has either no control over them or chooses "not to engage". You don't really get to make that choice when you are in a public space infringing on the enjoyment of others. Sure, they are children and yes, they will act up. It is, however, the parent's responsibility to control it. The excuse - and yes it is an excuse for not wanting to instill good manners and proper decorum - that "they are just children" is not acceptable. "If we don't want to deal with it, we should stay home" seems like an irresponsible cop out.

Honestly, I don't feel your comments have any value. As someone who does not have children, you have NO idea what it's like. Believe me, I've been there, done that. Judging the kids, or parents even, for their poor behavior. But the fact of the matter is, it's quite ignorant on your part to feel that kids are expected to show any type of "proper decorum" especially kids under the age of 5...or that parents make "excuses" for not instilling good manners. Sorry, but my kids are GREAT kids, both under 5... But unfortunately they are not perfect! Kids, just like adults have bad days. Don't speak unless you have a leg to stand on.

Should you not go out to eat because there are kids there, no. But in all reality, you are going to a place that's FOR children and families. Kids aren't perfect. Just like there could be a rude or rowdy adult, there could be a cranky, crying toddler. Pleasant, no. But we deal and we make the best of it.

 

[Missyrose]

We raised a daughter, quite successfully I would guess (yes, we were successful in turning her into a Disney person!), and we took our daughter to many excellent restaurants as she was growing up. She knew what our expectations were for her, and she also knew that if she was not able to behave in an appropriate manner, that the meal would be over (as well as any additional fun stuff that might have been planned), and we would leave. Certainly, we had a right to be there, but so did all the other diners, who were paying good money for an enjoyable dinner. It was our responsibility to remove any distraction that we brought in with us - and hope for better luck next time. I can only remember needing to leave a restaurant one time (granted, she was a happy, well-cared for child - but temper tantrums or poor behavior were never acceptable).

Thank you for being a considerate member of the universe. I'm sure you got to enjoy many lovely dinners with your daughter because of the simple rules you set and expected her to follow.

Honestly, I don't feel your comments have any value. As someone who does not have children, you have NO idea what it's like. Believe me, I've been there, done that. Judging the kids, or parents even, for their poor behavior. But the fact of the matter is, it's quite ignorant on your part to feel that kids are expected to show any type of "proper decorum" especially kids under the age of 5...or that parents make "excuses" for not instilling good manners. Sorry, but my kids are GREAT kids, both under 5... But unfortunately they are not perfect! Kids, just like adults have bad days. Don't speak unless you have a leg to stand on.

Should you not go out to eat because there are kids there, no. But in all reality, you are going to a place that's FOR children and families. Kids aren't perfect. Just like there could be a rude or rowdy adult, there could be a cranky, crying toddler. Pleasant, no. But we deal and we make the best of it.

How dare you dismiss the value of someone's experience simply because they don't have kids! I wouldn't lump the PP in with you simply because they DID have a kid. No one is expecting perfection from kids at restaurants. But no one, kids or not, should have to ignore a temper tantrum simply because the screaming child's parent can. You're in a public place and whether it's Disney World, a Parisian bistro or even just a public park, kids can be kids without screaming and throwing a tantrum.

Yes, I'm childless and I go to Disney World. And yes, I understand I will be surrounded by kids (I love kids!). And I certainly know that, short of V&A's, there will be kids everywhere I eat on Disney property. But I don't think it's unreasonable to think that if I'm eating at a signature restaurant after 8 p.m., that I shouldn't be able to expect a meal without prolonged screaming or kids running around my table while the parents ignore them and enjoy their meal because "hey, they're kids."

 

[mrsap]

Thank you for being a considerate member of the universe. I'm sure you got to enjoy many lovely dinners with your daughter because of the simple rules you set and expected her to follow.

How dare you dismiss the value of someone's experience simply because they don't have kids! I wouldn't lump the PP in with you simply because they DID have a kid. No one is expecting perfection from kids at restaurants. But no one, kids or not, should have to ignore a temper tantrum simply because the screaming child's parent can. You're in a public place and whether it's Disney World, a Parisian bistro or even just a public park, kids can be kids without screaming and throwing a tantrum.

Yes, I'm childless and I go to Disney World. And yes, I understand I will be surrounded by kids (I love kids!). And I certainly know that, short of V&A's, there will be kids everywhere I eat on Disney property. But I don't think it's unreasonable to think that if I'm eating at a signature restaurant after 8 p.m., that I shouldn't be able to expect a meal without prolonged screaming or kids running around my table while the parents ignore them and enjoy their meal because "hey, they're kids."

How dare someone who does not have children make comments on how parents should raise their kids!!

 

[Dan Murfman]

Seriously isn't there another place to have the children discussion than a thread about ADRs?

 

[seasidespences]

Sooooooooo....anyone have any CG updates tonight? Really hoping to hear something soon...one way or another for our September trip! Fingers crossed!

 

[MarlaSingersLaundry]

Thank you for being a considerate member of the universe. I'm sure you got to enjoy many lovely dinners with your daughter because of the simple rules you set and expected her to follow.



How dare you dismiss the value of someone's experience simply because they don't have kids! I wouldn't lump the PP in with you simply because they DID have a kid. No one is expecting perfection from kids at restaurants. But no one, kids or not, should have to ignore a temper tantrum simply because the screaming child's parent can. You're in a public place and whether it's Disney World, a Parisian bistro or even just a public park, kids can be kids without screaming and throwing a tantrum.

Yes, I'm childless and I go to Disney World. And yes, I understand I will be surrounded by kids (I love kids!). And I certainly know that, short of V&A's, there will be kids everywhere I eat on Disney property. But I don't think it's unreasonable to think that if I'm eating at a signature restaurant after 8 p.m., that I shouldn't be able to expect a meal without prolonged screaming or kids running around my table while the parents ignore them and enjoy their meal because "hey, they're kids."

Completely agree with your sentiments, Missyrose. We've raised two children, both still young and take them to Disney with us. They know the behavior that is acceptable and not. If they misbehave, we leave or one of us will leave until she calms down. We would never want to ruin another dinners experience. It's part of what we signed up for. They are not perfect and have bad days, like most children. However, they understand there are consequences for their actions. Babies obviously don't understand, but again, if they were fussy or having a melt down, we would leave.

I'm not claiming we are better than others, it's just common curtesy. No surer way to ruin a meal than a screaming kid!

 

[WDWFANCBIIIME]

Seriously isn't there another place to have the children discussion than a thread about ADRs?

Agreed!!!

 

[LoveKermit]

Just found this thread. We are thinking of changing a Yachtsman to CG in Oct. Without reading every page (since this page was discouraging enough), am I to assume that ADRs are not open for anyone yet? DH can't get motivated to check his MDE and I want everything under one login.

Sounds like everyone is waiting for them to open?

Thanks!

 

[mystery222184]

Just found this thread. We are thinking of changing a Yachtsman to CG in Oct. Without reading every page (since this page was discouraging enough), am I to assume that ADRs are not open for anyone yet? DH can't get motivated to check his MDE and I want everything under one login.

Sounds like everyone is waiting for them to open?

Thanks!

Yep - we are all waiting and crossing our fingers for ADRs to open up soon. Nothing released yet! Welcome to the thread

 

[mrsap]

Completely agree with your sentiments, Missyrose. We've raised two children, both still young and take them to Disney with us. They know the behavior that is acceptable and not. If they misbehave, we leave or one of us will leave until she calms down. We would never want to ruin another dinners experience. It's part of what we signed up for. They are not perfect and have bad days, like most children. However, they understand there are consequences for their actions. Babies obviously don't understand, but again, if they were fussy or having a melt down, we would leave.

I'm not claiming we are better than others, it's just common curtesy. No surer way to ruin a meal than a screaming kid!

No kidding!!! I have never had to personally leave a restaurant for my kids! Just sticking up for those who have a crying child or ones that are having a tantrum. Sorry, but even the most well behaved kids can have a bad day. Everyone, including parents, want a quiet meal! Unfortunately, it doesnt always happen. People are suggesting no kids at Cali Grill. As someone with kids, I would think you would feel the same way as I do.

 

[crostorfer]

Sooooooooo....anyone have any CG updates tonight? Really hoping to hear something soon...one way or another for our September trip! Fingers crossed!

Really hoping for an October reservation myself. I hope we hear something soon!

 

[ktblueyes18]

Agreed!!!

DITTO. Start another thread to fight about kids, folks. I got all excited when I saw all the notifications, and turns out they're all unrelated to the thread topic.

 

[Maiky]

DITTO. Start another thread to fight about kids, folks. I got all excited when I saw all the notifications, and turns out they're all unrelated to the thread topic.

Exactly!

 

[bellrae]

Exactly!

I too got excited with all the extra posts - came here for GC updates, not a fight about who knows more abould child rearing!

Back to the business at hand folks