LOL!!! I didn't mean to sound quite so negative about it, believe me I was thrilled!!
We did order from the GF bakery, but it was before the whole "cake hotline" came about. We ate at 1900 PF.
The cake was $100.00 (yes, a bit pricey I agree.....) but it was certainly unique and special!! I do have the DDE, so we got 20% off of it as well, bringing it down to $80.- a little easier to swallow, still a lot for a cake, but they certainly put a lot of time into it.
As for the size, when I spoke with the CM (I forget her name, maybe Karen?) I asked if instead of the whole multiple layers, we could just have one layer all snazzed up

Also, they asked which type of filling we wanted. It could have been custard, berries, peanut butter, or anything else mentioned on this thread previously, but we're not really into filling. So, in between the layers is buttercream frosting. So delicious, and so SWEET. Everything on the cake was edible. The "antenna" type things on the top reminded me of the "circus peanuts" we used to get by the bag when we were kids. (do you remember what I'm talking about?-the pure sugar ones??)

Nothing but buttercream between the layers!!!! None of that filling to detract from the glory of the buttercream! A woman after my own heart....My whole family's heart! And what a whimsical cake too.
Aside from the cake, did they do anything special for your DD there? I have heard rumors of a tiara......
Thanks.