carmie3377
Hi, I'm Carmen and I'm a Disneyholic.
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I am looking for some ideas for a special celebration.
Our youngest daughter came home from S. Korea in June 2002, and our Disney trip is scheduled for June this year. I know that the Disney restaurants will recognize birthdays and anniversaries, but is there anything we can do to celebrate the anniversary of our youngest daughter's arrival?
For many years we celebrated our twins' adoption from China with a Forever Family Day celebration dinner at a Chinese restaurant, but since Ashley came home she had so many medical problems and attachment issues, we never did this for her.
For those who don't know us, we are Kim & Greg and we have been blessed with three children through international adoption. Kaitlyn & Jessica are 12 years old identical twins from China, and Ashley is 7 years old and was born in S. Korea. Ashley has a number of special needs including spina bifida (she walks without assistance) neurogenic bladder, PDD-NOS (autism spectrum disorder), ADHD, reactive attachment disorder (much improved ) and failure to thrive. She also had Nissan fundiplication surgery for GERD last June and has a Mickey button.
I feel like since we finally have most of the medical issues resolved, and Ashley is in a great Verbal Behavior Autistic Support class with regular Kindergarten, and she is making great progress, it is time to celebrate as a family.
Ashley adores her sisters, but they often do not want to include her in their activities partly because they are twins, and partly because they think she is a baby because she has behavior issues related to her PDD-NOS, and still wears diapers due to the SB.
I am thinking I would like to recognize all three girls (not just Ashley) as an anniversary celebration of when they all became sisters. Something that would make them all feel good about being together, instead of something just for her that might make the older girls jealous.
Does anyone have any ideas of what we can do? What do people usually do for birthdays and anniversaries? Would their be any kind of button that would be appropriate for this type of celebration?
Right now we have ADRs for:
Norway Princess Lunch
Teppan Edo
Park Fair Cinderella Lunch (Ashley will be dressed as Cinderella)
Ohana breakfast
Mama Melrose
also, Chef Mickey, but this one is really late at night, so unless I can get an earlier time, we may not be able to keep it
I am really thinking the best meal to do this would be the Ohana breakfast, because Lilo and Stitch was the first movie we all saw together after Ashley came home, and because there are so many references to adoption throughout the movie including:
"Ohana means family. Family means nobody gets left behind. Or forgotten."
"This is my family. I found it all on my own. It's little, and broken, but still good. Yeah, still good."
Thank you for your help!
I really don't have any suggestions for you, but I think that your story is truly amazing. I clicked on your link and looked at some of your pictures. What a beautiful family!
I think the Lilo and Stitch idea is really neat. That is one of our favorite movies. Plus, I have read that the breakfast is served family style, so no getting up going to the buffet and risk missing a character!