I likely created more of my problem taking the SW phone agent suggestion to move/change my flights to later so keep the funds, and rather I should have just let things sit and filter a minute, hung up, and let all the problems filter out first and then go back later again to SW and say let's try this again. So, I no longer have the April flights but rebooked those flights with placeholder flights in July and we have absolutely nothing planned.
We were going to go on a cruise in August, but instead of that are going to WDW - that's our replacement April Disney trip. We already had flights to and from MCO for the cruise, we have Disney park tickets we were going to use in April, and rebooked hotel reservations. So, basically in July now we have tickets to and from MCO that were changed from our lost April trip, and what to do, I've currently got no idea

I really don't want to make a July plan. That's why I think, well, I should have waited this out some more to talk to the airlines. For Disney in August (assuming everything works that way to be open and we can go) I am not doing any planning for some time, I just have the flights and hotel booked, that's the only effort I'm giving it.