I apologize in advance for all the rambling. Just got home from our trip! We attended Friday's 9/14 party. Overall we had a great night! It was hot as blue blazes as other's have mentioned but thankfully it didn't rain a drop. I will also concur that it was very crowded but not until 7:30 or so. If at all possible, I strongly encourage being there at 4:00 as there is a lot you can get done. We were allowed in at 3:48 and this is what we were able to accomplish between 3:48 and 7:00.
1. Pictures in the bypass
2. Haunted Mansion (FP)
3. Peter Pan's Flight (FP)
4. 7DMT Posted wait 50 minutes, we were in and out in 37. From watching the wait times on
MDE and now from firsthand experience, it looks like the sweet spot to ride 7DMT is somewhere between 5:00 and 6:30 if you don't want to spend party time waiting.
5. Space Mountain (FP)
6. Snack and drinks at Starlight Cafe
7. Lined up for Queen of Hearts/Tweedles at 6:30. We were second in line.
Party begins:
Queen/Tweedles came out at 7:02. We were done at 7:07. On this particular night Queen/Tweedles were closer to the Speedway and Alice and Hatter were closer to the walkway that goes between Cheshire Cafe and Starlight Cafe. We asked 2 CMs where they'd be. One didn't know for sure and other looked like a supervisor and told us exactly where each would be meeting.
We then immediately got in line for Alice/Hatter. The Queen/Tweedles line was about 2x as long as Alice/Hatter so if you are interested in meeting both back to back, I strongly encourage you to start with Queen/Tweedles. We were done with Alice/Hatter at 7:21.
Since we were ahead of schedule we made an impromptu visit to New Fantasyland.
Rode Dumbo - Walk on and bonus ToT location with no line (Side note: Dumbo could use a fresh coat of paint and the brown accordion looking things that attach the elephants to the supports were weathered and cracked.)
Rode Little Mermaid - Close to a walk on, waited maybe 5 minutes
Rode Mad Tea Party - This is where we started noticing the crowds. Line was backed out of the entrance but moved quickly. Posted wait was 10 minutes, actual was around 17. Kids wanted to ride and we knew we wouldn't be coming back to the area. 7DMT was also down so people were probably staying close by hoping to catch it as soon as it came back up. Overheard CM telling some it would be down for 2 more hrs... glad we got to ride it early.
By now it was around 8:30 so we decided to head for Frontierland. Parade crowds were already building and because our kids were starting to get cranky, we went ahead and got a front-row parade spot right across from LTT. It was a good opportunity for the kids to get off their feet and have a snack and drink.
Headless Horsemen didn't come by until 9:17 which seems later than average based on other reports (worth the wait... he's awesome). Parade followed about 5 minutes later. Parade was one of the best I've seen, though I'd prefer if it was 2 or 3 floats longer.
Afterwards we went against the mob until we got to the cut-through by the shooting arcade to Adventure land. We got to our Fireworks spot in the grassy area in front of Casey's, it was probably 75% full when we got there. Our castle view was somewhat obstructed but we could see the fireworks perfectly.
After the fireworks, we rode BTMRR. There was a mob of people also headed there which made us a little nervous but I don't think the line ever stopped moving. Both sides were operating and at that time of night Disney could've easily shut down one of them to save money. This makes me think that they are legitimately interested in keeping lines for rides as short as possible.
Rode Splash Mountain, walk on but we got stuck. The emergency lights actually came on and at that point I thought we were going to be evacuated. We sat there for about 5 minutes and out of nowhere they announced over the speaker that the ride would resume immediately. The emergency lights went off and we were on our way. This ride also had a bonus ToT location and between this and Dumbo and the CM on the street in Frontierland giving away candy by the fist-full we had more candy than we knew what to do with.
Since we were slightly delayed at Splash we had to make a decision to either ride Pirates or get pictures at Haunted Mansion. Since we paid for MM we decided to get the pictures. I was disappointed we didn't get to Pirates because I wanted to see the live actors but the kids wanted to do other things so we let them hijack the itinerary for part of the night. As we walked down the dock by the river I noticed that the second parade looked just as crowded as the first. Perhaps because it was a sold out night?
We made our way back into Fantasyland and rode the carousel before hoofing it to the midnight hocus pocus show. The midnight hocus show had a crowd backed all the way to the partner's statue. The adults could see OK, but not the kids. We just got there too late to get a good view so if you are planning to see the last Hocus Pocus show, don't expect to walk up at midnight and get a good spot if it's a sold out night. We stopped by to get the Headless Horsemen magic shot, but when they showed up in my account, instead of the Headless Horsemen it was a Hitchhiking ghost! Is that happening to anyone else?
I forgot to get my Orange Bird card when we entered the park and there was no one outside the fire station to hand them out at the end of the night. I went in the side door to city hall (the line was backed out the door and past the steps) and simply asked someone where to pick up the orange bird card. He asked how many were in my party and gave me a stack of that number. No questions asked, no marking my band. I'm sure this is a major YMMV.
Do not assume the park will clear out after the fireworks. I did not see a significant difference between the 2 parade crowds in Frontierland. We didn't leave until 12:55 and we still had to wait for 2 ferryboats to get back to the TTC and then had to wait for 2 trams and would've been a 3rd if we didn't squeeze really tight (sorry total strangers that were in our row). We got back to our offsite resort around 2 a.m.
If we go again, we'll do a couple of things differently but nothing could have prevented that other than firsthand experience. Spending countless hours reading the boards can only prepare you so much. I could've come away with some negative critiques about the party, but instead I decided to focus on the 95% of the party that was a superior product. When you're watching the fireworks explode in the sky, watching the awestruck look on your children's face as the Headless Horsemen trots by, or drifting in a log on Splash Mountain singing "How do you do?", it's hard to be mad at Disney. The parade, fireworks, CMs, characters, and most ride lines were all fantastic. Come in with reasonable expectations of what you can accomplish, control only what you can control, don't get stressed out about what you can't (crowds, weather, ride downtime), and I think you'll have a great time. Categorize your must-do's and your want-to-do's and always plan for your must-do's to take longer than expected. If the plan changes that's ok, but have a plan. If you fail to plan, then you are planning to fail.