I loved Lo on LB, but not so much on this show. She is showing the very prodominant "it's all about me" attatude of many younger adults. Comments from the end of last year - I'm not cool enough to be a groupie, I just want to got shopping - show she is just not very mature. Sure, hanging out with a band many not be her normal thing, but it's not going to kill you to spend more than a nano second watching them do a recording session. Who knows, given half a chance you might find out you actually enjoyed yourself. And she was SOOOO in the wrong with her attatude at the birthday party, then in her conversation with Audrina.
Spencer is a mothers worst fear. News flash butthead, being flat out rude to your girls family, after just getting back together, does not make you any bonus points for keeping the relationship going forward. And the scruffy look does nothing to improve your looks or lack there of. Just makes you look more of a worthless loser, who can't take the time to groom himself.