Giving to all, some or none is what concerns me. I would hate to have any child left out because the list grew too big so they were randomly chosen to skip. I know personally I'd feel that I must include all because leaving someone out would make me feel awful. Cost and transfer of FE gifts also becomes considerably larger. I know our friends on the August 16th cruise have 80 families. My friend is running it and said splitting the list was the best thing they did. If our list gets much bigger we might want to reconsider splitting.
So, how did people feel when the other list had better gifts? Seems like there will be unhappy people no matter what happens. PS, I have no clue how big this cruise's FE list is and don't care. If this becomes too stressful then we will stop joining (I will always hang FE tho, as I like knowing which cabin is ours from a distance, easier to see when wobbling back from a tasting..

I know we always look at giving small items that scale up well. On our Alaskan cruise, the official list was maybe 40 cabins with a least 2-3per. We ended up giving to 60+ cabins (they had FEs but not on the list), we had enough gifts so gave to all and we gave the extra to the crew (we handed out the one-size-fits-many gloves). Holly found a source that only charged like $1/ea when she bought the minimum order. She found a similar source for these upcoming cruises on other items, so there will be plenty from us.
I say give what you enjoy giving, if is only to some, friends/family, or all so be it. Receiving is extra and may not be fair but then nothing in this life is (otherwise I would have won the lotto by now with all the contributions I have made to it.

Heck, even Disney is not always fair. I mean, I never will get to ride the Mickey slide and join in on the Video Floors in the Kids area (at least I can wash my hands there on the Dream..

Ok.. off soapbox now.