trishy said:
Anyway, Welcome Back Lynne

Been so long, huh? I've never heard of that movie (then again, I haven't gotten out much lately either). Hey, at least you were with the one you love. That's what counts. Date nights....we used to have those - many moons ago.
HAPPY FRIDAY!!!
Trishala Dahling: Serenity is a movie that was written by Joss Wheden, the guy that created/wrote Buffy the Vampire Slayer and the spin off Angel. All of it wasn't yuck...just not my cup of tea. Like Buffy and Angel though. Hubby liked it, that's what counts.
Yes, that date nite is import tantay. I takeum much flackum from some family members for having Miss Judit.
WARNING: RANT COMING "You should be taking care of your own kid,...she's raising her...""" blah blah blah

Well, I am still her parent, and I AM raising her....but I want to go back to school and finish my degree. My parents died, my sister died, Tim's mom is gone, his dad is in England....my closest relative is 2 hours away. Not conducive to just "droppin her off". Here is their other arguments "well, welcome to parenthood, that's just part of the sacrifice". Yes it is, and all of us good parents do make sacrifices. But most of the people telling me this, are people who have a huge family network of support system around them and several people to drop them off with. "Well, get a babysitter". We have had them, the last one we fired when we came home at 8:30, not midnight or anything, but
8:30 and she was asleep on the couch and Saralinda was alone in the playroom......that's when we tried the Aupair in America process. And ya know what???? It works for us!!!!! We are happier and when the parents are happier, the children are happier. Judit is very quiet, shy meek and reserved compared to us. She doesn't disrupt the flow of the house, and has never even come close to trying to userp my authority. Every major decision is cleared by me, and I keep my thumb in all the other pies as well. Everytime the last minute things happen now as they always do, she is there to help out. For Saralinda it's just a great "big sister" type of arrangement. It's such a win-win situation, I think they just need to get over it!!!! One of the people is Saralinda's Godmother, so I do take it from her a little better than the others....but still. My kid, my rules. Never gave her any input on raising her kids!!!!
okay, rant over now.......tenor returns the soap box............ 