Sam, I'm the same as you. I too, over analyze and think way too much on this stuff.
I have been told that we can request a rotaion, but are not guarenteed that rotation. The rotation that I requested last time I did get. I did a chart, filled in the port of calls, theme nights, etc. then went from there fuguring out when I (we) would want to go to Palo's, spa, brunch...
Also, I have read here on the DIS boards that with families with small children and that have early seating that Disney tends to slot them in on the APL rotation. Why? Don't know.
We booked thru DU this time & I emailed Sue Ellen a few days ago with our resv. & rotation requests. She said that she will make the ressies about 100 days before cruise & will contact us with the confirmation. We too, have the REAS. Otherwise, last year we went thru All Seasons Travel and I called Debbie myself about 2 months before cruise with my requests. She is really friendly and I got all my requests.

Okay, that's enough rambling....
Everyone, have a beautiful weekend and to you mothers... HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!!!!!!!!!!
