I met Murray when we worked together in Calgary AB... and I did not like him one bit! Infact he was "kindof" my boss (it's along story based on our careers) and he made me cry on more than one occasion

...about a year later I moved back to Ontario for a promotion.. a few years into the job, we needed another staff member... Murray was roommates with a good friend of mine, I had heard he was interested in moving, and despite my original feelings (not to mention he's AMAZING at his job)...the years had softened my senses. I called him up and we talked for hours... it was the weirdest phone call ever... you know when you just click with someone? and we've been together for 5 years this May.
Murray proposed on Christmas morning 2006 after asking my dad's permission.
We wanted to get married earlier, but my brother is getting married in Cuba this April and we thought 2 destination weddings only months apart was too much for everyone... so October 7th it is.
The Plan:
my family of 4, his family of 7, and his best friend, her fiancee and child for a week in Disney.... except for my family none of them have been to Disney (blasphemous I know!) his brother has a new baby, his bff's daughter will be 2 and our other neice and nephew are 11 and 14.. so the kids will LOVE IT!
Rehersal Dinner: going to book Cindy's table on the 6th, the night before so everyone can meet... his family lives in Alberta and northern Ontario so this will be the first and probably only time our 2 families get 2gether.
Something special: we are making t-shirts for everyone to wear when they arrive... and at rehersal dinner.... looking for suppliers... t-shirts are expensive... got a new computer, bought a disney art program and are currently spending spare time making funny looking shirts-- artists we are not
Dress: I will post a pic in the next month when i go for a fitting... but it's ivory strapless with a wine red middle and ivory lace overlay, and wine red sash with a jewel holding it to the dress.
Flowers: going with tussy mussy.. but changing white roses for ivory gerbers... I'm just not that into roses... with hidden mickey's... DF will wear white stephanotis with hidden mickey.
Jewelry: bought the swarvoski Cindy choker from ebay after seeing it on one of our fellow Dis'er picutres... so far that's all... looking for shoes when the snow melts and can leave the winter boots behind.
Hair/ Makeup: Ana at BeauteSpecial after all of your lovely advice... for myself, the 2 mom's and my 11 year old neice-- no makeup for her, just hair
DF: calling Carolyn Allen's for Disneyish tux
Wedding Cake: going with yellow cake and raspberry mousse-- added cindy choco topper- thx to Disboards!
Ceremony: SeaBreezePoint-- pretty traditional, Ron Rosenzweig for the officiant. I want to walk down isle to Pachelbel's cannon d...LOVE it.
Cake cutting ect... ordered a second champagne and a cider for the kids... we've ordered mickey ears for everyone, even the babies with embrodiery for the pics- to be delivered to the site day of (that way no one forgets them)... and there will be no HATERS... they will wear the hats with a smile or I will go bridezilla. ordered us the tophat and veil...
Reception: Portobello's for dinner 6pm ish... having mickey mouse ricekrispie squares at the table for everyone.
MK photoshoot x2: following morning at 6am... yikkes... will sew silk scarves together and wear as night cap so not to ruin hair... so romantic for wedding night I know!!!!! we're doing MK and Epcot- Italy and Morocco
that's it for now... thank you lovely ladies and men

for all of your postings and allowing us lurkers to benefit from your experience.
to be continued...