Objective advice needed please...

[hucifer]

If I were you, I would be more concerned about keeping the lines of communication with my daughter open. Breaching your daughter's trust over something so minor seems like a bad idea to me.

I completely agree! Embrace that your daughter feels safe enough to confide in you, and give her good reason to keep doing it.

 

[Pigeon]

This is completely none of your business.