Just thought I'd let everyone know where I'm at. I'll be starting my science pre-reqs this summer which are necessary whether I go ADN or accelerated BSN. My science and psychology credits are too old to count toward whatever degree I pursue, but they will get me past basic intro classes and right into A&P and Lifespan.
Some of the admissions officers were rather negative when I called for information - maybe I'm calling at a busy time. Either way, I'm admittedly kind of judging the schools by how helpful their people were.
I met with an advisor at the local CC who was wonderful and gave me this great plan that could help me sustain my family life throughout most of theprogram. Although she was an advisor to an ADN program, ironically she had taught clinicals for the accelerated BSN that I'm looking into (she said she found it stressful
as a teacher 
).
The nursing advisor for the BSN (private college) was very nice also. It's definitely a "coming up for air" program that takes 12 months. I would love to be done with the BSN and DH is supportive, but this would be extremely intense. I still haven't decided against it, though.
Money factor - getting an ADN at the CC slowly over the next few years not including pre-reqs or books, would be about $8,000. At the private college, the accelerated BSN is about $54,000. The only state school offering the accelerated BSN is about $25,000 and this is a school that I don't want to deal with.
So, I'm still going forward with my options open. Thanks again for the information everyone and for referencing certain web sites. I've learned quite a bit this past week. Right now, I'm just getting myself back into school mode. Reviewing math, chemistry and studying A&P on my own right now is actually quite enjoyable - kids have hijacked my brain these past few years, so I feel like I'm challenging myself!
