
), but we hardly ever get to vacation. So when we do...we splurge big time. Because I don't want to worry about pinching pennies when I'm on vacation, and damit, I want to stay on property, and spoil my family silly. Why? Just because. 

I just start laughing at people who think they have gotten a "great" deal with the 40 percent off rate, but the rooms are between 400 and 500 dollars with a rack rate!!! If we stay in a hotel, I rarely pay more than a hundred dollars. I guess I am just cheap.
Do I think a lot of people trade financial peace for Disney vacations? Sure they do. People want to save, but immediate gratification gets in the way. We see it happen every day, and, unfortunately, other people's short-sightedness DOES affect us, it affects every taxpayer as we are the safety net for those who need it.
But I do not think that the average American has to choose between a Disney vacation onsite and funding their children's education.
In better times, we paid cash for a Disney vacation every year. My husband and I worked hard and sacrificed having nice cars, designer clothes, and eating out more frequently so that we can go to Disney World once a year in a Magic Kingdom area onsite hotel because that is what makes us happy on vacation. We have small children that need the nap in the afternoon. My husband loves that he doesn't have to drive around. We love being immersed in the magic away from the rest of the world. It is one of the few places that we can really, truly relax and enjoy our family. It is WORTH the sacrifice.
Now, we work hard, but our life has changed drastically. Now we work hard and will still save and sacrifice but only be able to go to Disney every 2-3 years.
As others have said, it is all about priorities. We can shake our heads at how other people spend their money, and they can scratch their heads at the way we spend ours, but we just need to be respectful that everyone has their "thing". Disney is our family's thing!![]()
I am sure there are some people who do go into big debt to go to Disney.
But there are probably other people (like me) who do save some money for vacation and use it on Disney (without impacting the savings for college, retirement, etc).
For me, I used to put off these kinds of things (vacation) not wanting to spend the money. Then my husband was diagnosed with a terminal illness. Those years and the uncertainty (well, certainty) of what was to happen made me regret the things I had put off. I learned that you need to live life - you don't know what will happen in the future.
We went to Disney when he was sick. It was pretty sad.
Now almost 4 years later I am going to take my kids again. I want to experience their joy at being someplace magical. To make it easier on me, we will stay onsite. It just makes it more manageable. I don't have to worry about a car or waiting in traffic.
I won't go into debt to do it though.
. I hope that you and your children have the magical experience that you deserve.
You only live once and can't take any of it with you!I know what you mean. My family is from Guatemala and when i go visit it kills me that i see all the luxuries we have... even if it's just filtered water.... i hope you enjoy ur DIS trip... and Congrats on the trip to ethiopia....Oh, I agree that you need to seize life. We take a big 2 week vacation every year and 2 or 3 one week vacations and/or sometimes a family mission trip. We went to Honduras last year and are going to Ethiopia as a family this summer. When you see how others live, I just feel guilty for even thinking of going to Disneyworld when they don't even have clean water. Also, I put this topic on this board because I didn't know where else to put it.
Christine
Just to let you know we also are "REAL" people here in NY.Both my wife and I have decent (not great) jobs but find it some how during the year not to go into debt for our WDW vacations.Yes we could probably put it on the mortgage or save that much more for the future but you can't put a price on memories...as the commerical goes...."PRICELESS"![]()
FYI:...It took years but I finally found the SECRET......Hows this for cost....our last visit Dec.21-28,2007 at the BCV was an unheard cost of $850.00...YES you read that RIGHT........and our upcoming visit Aug 24-31,2008 VWL is $1107 and if memory serves me correct these are "DELUXE" not value WDW resorts.So I think the problem is you really haven't found the secret to staying on WDW grounds. "HAPPY HUNTING"![]()
So, are you going to share the "secret"?
We just cant afford $4000 a year but for a once in a lifetime vacation it was well worth the money!It's a matter of preference. We stay on property because that's what we like. I don't want to cook, clean or make beds when I'm on vacation.
