nov. resort dilema

[detective mickey]

here's the scoop. im recently divorced with a thirteen yo.son ,my girlfriend, also recently divorced, has an 18 mo and a 4 yo. both are rambunctious. we are planning a get to know each other / thank god its over and we can breathe again trip to wdw in nov. the plan is a six night trip. my 13 yo is quiet and still a little angry but is open to the idea and actually a little excited. her kids have never been and we are looking forward to their excitment. my plan is a connecting two room stay at either pop or pofq depending on the fall fl res rates. the two rooms will give my 13 yo a place of refuge after a long day. the other option is a deluxe resort room. my question is this... is a deluxe room large enough for a little space for him or should i book the two rooms? i want this trip to be special for everyone with a little breathing room should we need it.

 

[pirateofthecarolinas]

I think 2 rooms will be your best bet.

The 18mos. and 4 year old can take naps or go to bed early and the 13 year old can have some alone time and privacy.

All 5 in a deluxe will not give you extra room. If the 18mos. is still in a pack 'n play, it will take up some floor space.

Have a great trip.

Lori

 

[CarolMN]

Book two rooms - I think you will appreciate the extra bathroom even if everything else goes perfectly.

Also, FWIW, since your girlfriend's children are so young, I think you need to provide some private space for your son. i think he may need it every once in a while. He's a teenager and he's probably not used to having little ones around. Even the best of them can get on your nerves - especially when they are tired, over stimulated or just fussing. All little kids do that occasionally and Disney can be a very stressful environment for them.

You didn't ask - but in case you haven't already thought/decided to do this - try to arrange some time for just you and your son during the trip. You'll be glad you did!

Best wishes -

 

[detective mickey]

thanks for the info..thats what i thought too. my son and i just commando'd universal last weekend at rpr together and had a great time. while there we discussed the possible wdw trip. on the way home he was inquisitive about it and ready to go. however last years trip with our original family was wonderful and there will probably be reservations and friction from several sides as my ex, my son and i really enjoyed going on these trips together. im hoping for the best and am looking forward to more time together with him as well as new relationships.. im thinking two pofq rooms.

 

[bigbabyblues]

I would also go with the separate rooms, if things don't go exactly as you hope, you and your ds will have your own space. Even if everything else is great, the little ones might need a nap, and it will be easier with two.

Enjoy your trip!

Steph