not very christmassy need to say this :-(

[buzz for boys]

Cameron has just come into me and said he has been looking out of the window at the stars and he doesnt want to go to heaven he wants to stay with us on earth !! He said he didnt know what to do because if jesus asked him if he was a good boy he couldnt lie but he didnt want to go live there with the stars.
What am i supposed to tell a scared 8 yr old?? My whole heart wants to tell him he will be ok but I cant so instead i gave him ahug and put him back to bed.
Cant help thinking that he knows something by coming to say this out of the blue ???
I just dont know what to say to him x x x

 

[Dimplenose]

You've all been through so much that I'm sure this wasn't just "out of the blue" he must have been thinking things over for a long time and has experienced things most other 8 year olds wouldn't even begin to imagine.

I'm sure your hug was the best answer you could give him.

Here's a hug from me because I can't think what else to say except stay strong, there are a lot of people that care about you and Cameron.

 

[craigs bride]

aww big dont know what else to say really ! x

 

[Tinks1984]

More for you Louise.

Awful thing for such a young one to have to even think about and I think he's been brave to tell you his feelings, even though they're upsetting.

My thoughts and strength is with you all through this awful time

 

[T16GEM]

oh Louise I'm sorry, I guess his mind is working overtime at the moment .

 

[cherjp]

What a strong brave wee soldier you have ! to you and him

 

[A Small World]

Im not sure what to say but wanted to send you all lots of love and hugs

 

[Ware Bears]

I don't know what to say either but will also send you a and another for Cam.

 

[Muscateer]

Must be so tough on you, Cam and the family, he sounds such a brave little lad. Sending to you all

 

[mandymouse]

Aww bless him, hugs and love to all of you

 

[Pinky166]

Lots of love & hugs to you both.

 

[jjk]

for you both xxx

 

[strawberry blonde]

You have such a special little boy and you're doing a great job. There's nothing like a hug to cheer you up.

 

[Chilly]

 

[stitch&ariel]

Sending loads of your way it sounds like you have a lovely brave boy there!

 

[Cyrano]

This post just turned me into putty. Wish I could offer words of wisdom but think that you should be proud of yourself and your DS.

 

[katiec]

this puts all our little niggles and worries into perspective.

Lots of to you all

 

[Pegasus928]

I can't even begin to imagine how hard it must have been for you to have listen to such heart breaking words from Cam, but both me and Elaine know that if anyone could make him feel safe and secure it would be you.

If I were in your position Louise then I wouldn't hesitate to tell Cam that everything is going to be OK - even if deep down you know there is a chance that it might not be. It could be that that's all he needs to help him through the difficult times ahead.

Please give a HUGE hug to Cam from us (and Dizzy too)

Kenny, Elaine, Bradley and Taylor

XXXX

 

[buzz for boys]

Woah you guys made my eyes leak again.
I wish i had the faith in me that you guys have - I did a wonderful job of passing the buck this morning and cams support worker at the school has promised to talk to him about his worries and to explain death to him in a way he hopefully understands.
I think the hardest part of this is that Cam at 8 has more idea of his own mortality than my eldest has at 11. I do believe thats its an important part of Cameron accepting who he is and Im hoping that the school can give him the answers he wants without the emotion that me and dh show.
Thanks guys for listening x x x

 

[JohnnySharp2]

From Joshua to Cameron .

2 special children.

From Johnny to Loiuse

2 special parents.