Not related but about bullies

[CHBDISNEY]

How many people on here have been bullied or threatened? Well how would you control an incident like mine?

I am the sibling page creator of our yearbook this year. So I'm looking for Siblings to sign up and take a pic together. I made a time sheet for students to sign their names on the time best for them. But this girl yesterday afternoon wrote down a whole new time not listed at the last minute. So I told her this evening that I was sorry I did not make her time but I even gave/added a few more time slots just for her. She wrote back and said that her sister was out of school those periods and threatened that I better let her take the pic in the morning tomorrow. Who does she think she is? Am I the only one who thinks this is rude and demanding?

 

[Fairywings]

How many people on here have been bullied or threatened? Well how would you control an incident like mine?

I am the sibling page creator of our yearbook this year. So I'm looking for Siblings to sign up and take a pic together. I made a time sheet for students to sign their names on the time best for them. But this girl yesterday afternoon wrote down a whole new time not listed at the last minute. So I told her this evening that I was sorry I did not make her time but I even gave/added a few more time slots just for her. She wrote back and said that her sister was out of school those periods and threatened that I better let her take the pic in the morning tomorrow. Who does she think she is? Am I the only one who thinks this is rude and demanding?

It does sound rude. You made accommodations, and she's threatening you.

I don't want you or me to sound like a snitch, but you need to go to whoever's leading the yearbook project, especially if it's an adult. No one has the right to threaten you or treat you in that way, and they need to be dealt with. It's best to get reinforcements, especially from an adult.

DO NOT get your friends involved. Don't make it more dramatic than it has to be.

 

[1elle2]

I HATE bullies. That's why I'm taking online classes. I heard that the other night a girl had a sleepover, and they drew on someone while she was sleeping and took pictures( and posted them online!). Also the girl was really nice, which shows that they're after the good people.

 

[Silvermist20]

I HATE bullies. That's why I'm taking online classes. I heard that the other night a girl had a sleepover, and they drew on someone while she was sleeping and took pictures( and posted them online!). Also the girl was really nice, which shows that they're after the good people.

I know right. (sadly, no online classes for me.) That's horrible!

 

[1elle2]

It really is.The girls were saying it was because she was the first one to go to sleep, but someone else was asleep there too and they didn't touch her.

 

[MickeyisBeast]

I don't consider what she said bullying... And I don't know her side of the story, so maybe while you took it as she was being rude, but she wasn't intending for it to come off that way. Just tell her you can't do whatever time, either you two come to an agreement or she just doesn't get to be on the page. It shouldn't be a big deal.

 

[Silvermist20]

I don't consider what she said bullying... And I don't know her side of the story, so maybe while you took it as she was being rude, but she wasn't intending for it to come off that way. Just tell her you can't do whatever time, either you two come to an agreement or she just doesn't get to be on the page. It shouldn't be a big deal.

I have to agree with Sarah on this one.

 

[tigerkitty]

I HATE bullies. That's why I'm taking online classes. I heard that the other night a girl had a sleepover, and they drew on someone while she was sleeping and took pictures( and posted them online!). Also the girl was really nice, which shows that they're after the good people.

Yah, I went to a sleepover at a girl's house and she was going to prank whoever fell asleep first, and I was the one to fall asleep first...

Luckily, my best friend was also at the sleepover, so she woke me up as they were preparing the prank. They were going to put my hand in warm water, because when someone is asleep and their hand gets put in warm water, they supposedly wet their pants...

Also, earlier that night, my friend had a drink of pop and, when she went to the bathroom, they put mayonaise in her drink. I was waiting to use the bathroom, so I wasn't there to stop them. My friend had already dranken some before we knew they put mayonaise in it, and the next day, she got sick.

 

[CHBDISNEY]

It does sound rude. You made accommodations, and she's threatening you.

I don't want you or me to sound like a snitch, but you need to go to whoever's leading the yearbook project, especially if it's an adult. No one has the right to threaten you or treat you in that way, and they need to be dealt with. It's best to get reinforcements, especially from an adult.

DO NOT get your friends involved. Don't make it more dramatic than it has to be.

I sure did go to a teacher and I totally agree. Well my page is going to have her pic in a small bubble. That's what you get for acting snobby for no reason. Karma if that's the appropriate word.

 

[GoofyFunyun]

I know this is about the yearbook pictures thing, but I just wanted people's opinions.

I have to sit across from a girl in one of my classes who is two years older than me. She can't accept the fact that I'm fine being single, even though I am going to homecoming with a guy. She always teases me that I'm hopeless and I will be a loner for the rest of my life. And whenever I try to talk, which is rarely because I'm shy, she tells me to shut up and that nobody cares. I have to put up with this every other day, so I need suggestions. The sad part is that I don't think she knows what she's doing. Please help!

 

[Silvermist20]

I know this is about the yearbook pictures thing, but I just wanted people's opinions.

I have to sit across from a girl in one of my classes who is two years older than me. She can't accept the fact that I'm fine being single, even though I am going to homecoming with a guy. She always teases me that I'm hopeless and I will be a loner for the rest of my life. And whenever I try to talk, which is rarely because I'm shy, she tells me to shut up and that nobody cares. I have to put up with this every other day, so I need suggestions. The sad part is that I don't think she knows what she's doing. Please help!

Tell an adult. If that doesn't work out, just ignore her. So like when she tells you to shut up, just keep talking. That's what I do all the time.

 

[GoofyFunyun]

Tell an adult. If that doesn't work out, just ignore her. So like when she tells you to shut up, just keep talking. That's what I do all the time.

Thanks for the suggestion. I have told my parents. And I have tried to keep talking but she repeats the "nobody cares part" I'll just ignore her from now on. Thanks!