I've been up for 30 minutes and I've already cried. I am so mad at my Aunt right now.
About a month ago I emailed her asking her for guidance/suggestions in regards to my parents 30th Anniversary on July 28th. The email response I got back was nothing helpful, pretty much telling me I was on my own. She was my Mom's maid of honor so I was hoping she could help throw together something on the smaller side. She literally told me "Good Luck with figuring it out." So I was poking around my parents trying to figure out what they would want and they both said they didn't want a party. In those words. So I figured I would just take them out to a nice dinner when they time came or I would give them a certificate for the two of them. They were also talking about booking a vacation for the winter in celebration so I thought I could book them an excursion or activity wherever they chose to go.
Well this morning on facebook my Aunt messages me and asks me what I am doing. I told her I wasn't doing a party and her response is "wow." Literally that is all she said. Then she goes on to say that she can't believe I haven't planned anything! I'm really upset. So upset that I called my Mom who assured me I wasn't being a bad daughter and if that anyone should plan a party my aunt her maid of honor should have. She also assured me she didn't want a party at all. Then I heard my dad in the background yell "NO PARTY."
I guess it's just the attitude that bothered me.