No baby . . .

[Boots]

I am so very very sorry. {{{{{HUGS}}}}} Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

 

[mrsv98]

Gem,

I don't want to get your hopes up, but don't give up yet. I started bleeding at 8 weeks, getting progressively heavier until the Sat before Labor Day, I was *sure* that I had miscarried because I also seemd to pass tissue. I was sent for a bunch of HCG test and then finally a transvag ultrasound and low and behold the tech found a heartbeat!(That's the heartbeat in my signature! )I continued to bleed for another month and my ob thinks I must have had twins and lost one but not the other. I KNOW how incredibly stressful this is and all I can say is hold on and keep thinking positive thoughts until Thurs, because you never know.

I also understand how you feel when you say you feel like a failure. I was so sure I had miscarried that I just grieved and grieved all weekend until that Tues when I had the test. Even tho it was early, I already loved my baby. I am still sad at times when I think of the twin I lost, but I know I will see her again someday and that makes it a bit better. Know that we are with you and you will always find support here no matter the outcome.

 

[nativetxn]

Oh honey, I've been where you are now, many times. It is a heartbreaking situation and there is nothing that anyone could say that will make you feel any better. It is an emotionally devastating situation

Just know that we care and that we are always here if you need to talk. {{{HUGS}}}

 

[FergieTCat]

I am so sorry for you and your husband.

Big cyber-hug ...

 

[Dream]

I am so sorry. You are in my prayers tonight GEM. I sent you a pm.

 

[Jennyfyar]

No advice or suggestions, just good thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry.

 

[Tuffcookie]

GEM, Honey, I've been in your shoes. So tough to deal with all the emotions you're feeling. I'm glad you have us to turn to! I think you would be better off not going on any trips right now. You would either be recovering from surgery or waiting for the inevitable. Right now you need to take care of your physical well-being! HUGS

TC

 

[kejoda]

I'm so sorry Gem. {{{HUGS}}}

 

[Laurabearz]

((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))) YOur in my thoughts and prayers.

 

[bashful64]

{{{HUGS}}} Gem.

 

[Pooh93]

{{hugs}} you are not a failure and many good thoughts and prayers for you and dh.

 

[Princess Michelle]

I'm so sorry GEM, my thoughts and prayers are with you. {{{hugs}}}

 

[newmousecateer]

Oh my dear, {{{{HUGS}}}} and more {{{{HUGS}}}}.

I will be thinking of you.

 

[bfeller]

GEM, I am thinking good thoughts for you on Thursday.

 

[Ranatra]

I am so sorry.
I spotted at 8-10 weeks with my last pregnancy (years ago) and lost it. I know how painful it can be. (((((((((((( Hugs ))))))))))))
Give yourself time, it really does heal the wounds a little.

 

[RitaZ.]

{{{hugs}}}

Take care, Gem.

 

[browneyes]

{{hugs}} I'm sorry. I hope you're ok.

 

[Jeafl]

I don't want to get your hopes up either, but I was in exactly your position 7 years ago. I started bleeding at 8 weeks and the doctor told me there was a sac but nothing else on the ultrasound. I went back a week later since I hadn't miscarried, so they did another ultrasound. Sure enough, there was a baby. She's now 6 1/2 yrs. old! No matter what happens, never think of yourself as a failure. Don't worry about telling people, they will all understand. Sending prayers and good thoughts your way...

 

[ripleysmom]

I also had the same thing. What helped me through that was to realize that there was no baby to lose. It just never developed. Hopefully they will find a baby in a week. If they don't, I hope that you have a quick recovery.

 

[MerryPoppins]

Gem, I'm so sorry. I hope you have good news on Thursday. Many hugs and tons of pixie dust headed your way.

I know how much feeling you already have for your baby. I can hear it in your posts. Don't blame yourself! This is more common than you realize right now. I've had several friends who experienced the same thing.

I've personally never lost a baby, but I have known heartache and I have broad shoulders to lean on. Until you feel like sharing with people in real life, feel free to talk to us about it. Sometimes opening your heart and getting the feelings out can be so healing. You'll be in my prayers!