On past trips, we have only stayed at WDW resorts; but for this upcoming trip, we decided to stay off-site (Hilton Parc Soleil). We found that we barely stayed at the WDW resort long enough to dip our toes in the pool, and we really wanted in-suite laundry so we could pack lightly. We also wanted relatively newer/recently refurbished hotels. I have done some research and here are hotels that made it on our family's top 4 list:
1. Hilton Parc Soleil - the newest Hilton Grand Vacations property. It has a full kitchen, in-suite washer/dryer, a great pool area with slide, proximity to WDW, and proximity to other Orlando attractions and eateries. Great reviews on Tripadvisor.
2. Hilton Bonnet Creek - Really nice Hilton hotel. No laundry, but excellent pool area with lazy pool and slides. Excellent reviews on TA. We would've stayed here but no in-suite washer/dryer.
3. Caribe Royale (the 2-bedroom villas) - You can get a discounted rate on Mousesavers.com. Has a great pool, free shuttle, and in-suite washer/dryer in the villas only. Located really close to DTD. Also great reviews on TA.
4. Hilton Grand Vacations International Drive - similar to the Hilton Parc Soleil. I couldn't book this one - no availability for our dates. I think this one is very popular, so you should book this one efficiently if you are interested. Excellent reviews.
Of course, you may have different needs than ours. And there are so many to pick from. Have fun planning!