"Nice Heels"

[wvjules]

I can easily list three threads where you have mentioned shoes in a lusty way. I'd say you qualify. Your woman bashing thread, the Isabella Rosselini thread and this one. And now, I rest my case.

Appreciating a good pair of heels in no way means that he has a foot fetish.

 

[IdesOmarch]

I can easily list three threads where you have mentioned shoes in a lusty way. I'd say you qualify. Your woman bashing thread, the Isabella Rosselini thread and this one. And now, I rest my case.

So I'm apparently "gay" with a "foot fetish"

 

[wvjules]

So I'm apparently "gay" with a "foot fetish"

Well thats a tag if I ever saw one.

 

[IdesOmarch]

Well, on the bright side he didn't mention her ****s at all. Give credit where credit is due.

Oh, and I'd take it as a compliment as well. I love shoes (except the pair I have on now. Pointy toed heels aren't agreeing with my toes today).

You're a trooper. Those look great, but they don't look comfortable.

 

[JessicaR]

So I'm apparently "gay" with a "foot fetish"

Not that theres anything wrong with that.

 

[IdesOmarch]

Not that theres anything wrong with that.

Yes sorry, exactly, forgot to add that.

 

[IdesOmarch]

I can easily list three threads where you have mentioned shoes in a lusty way. I'd say you qualify. Your woman bashing thread, the Isabella Rosselini thread and this one. And now, I rest my case because the most interesting man in the world is about to come home and I need to get cleaned up.

No, the Isabella Rosselini thread was about her scene in the black bra, I don't remember any heels? You brought that movie up BTW. Not that there's anything wrong with that.

 

[heatherleigh]

It would definitely make me uncomfortable. I don't like being checked out though. I've had people make comments like that in the past, and I thought it was very awkward and inappropriate. It would be different it another woman complimented my attire- that wouldn't offend me.

 

[wvjules]

It would definitely make me uncomfortable. I don't like being checked out though. I've had people make comments like that in the past, and I thought it was very awkward and inappropriate. It would be different it another woman complimented my attire- that wouldn't offend me.

Complimenting shoes = being checked out?

 

[ZachnElli]

I would happily accept "nice heels". A male coworker of mine called a pair of mine hooker heels! Now that is NOT a compliment!

 

[Uncle Remus]

I thought this was interestin':

ANCHORAGE, Alaska (AP) — A few dozen men seeking to raise awareness for sexual assault violence against women tried to walk a mile in their shoes Friday — literally.

Among the participants — some burly and others bearded — in the fourth annual "Walk a Mile in her Shoes" event at the University of Alaska Anchorage was the head of Alaska State Troopers, Col. Keith Mallard, who slipped out of one of his red suede peep-toe shoes during the walk.

"I had a blowout," Mallard said sheepishly. "It didn't hinder my progress any. I just had to pull to the side and get a tire change."

The men teetered precariously along the mile-long route, trying to raise money for a local nonprofit that supports sexual assault victims. Donations to Standing Together Against Rape will go toward banishing sexual assaults and other acts of violence against women.

The men were game, even if it meant nearly tripping over their own stilettos.

Vashon Hilliard, whose work involves helping the disabled, stuffed his feet into a colleague's black patent leather pumps. The shoes were a snug fit, but Hilliard didn't let that stop him.

"I just decided it's for a great cause, and why not?" he said.

"Men want to make a public statement that they detest sexual violence," said Keeley Olson, STAR's program manager. "A lot of them have told me that they walk for their sisters, they walk for their mothers, they walk for their daughters. They walk because they care about women."

Amusement factor aside, the underlying message was serious. Signs with messages including "No Means No!", "Got Consent???", "Shatter the Silence," and "Alaskans Can End Sexual Violence" bobbed along in the hands of participants.

Walt Monegan, former head of the state troopers, participated in what he said people were calling old lady shoes. "I'm old, so it's OK," he said.

Read more: http://www.mysanantonio.com/news/ar...r-anti-rape-message-1329274.php#ixzz1JGf9m2ot

 

[DaisyLynn]

I'd love it! Compliments are always nice to hear. I think that sometimes people read into things. My time is better spent buying more shoes.

 

[Feralpeg]

I guess I'm old fashioned. If I knew the guy, I'd be okay with it. If I did not know him, I think it is too personal a comment. I would feel like he was coming on to me. I really don't think comments about a person's appearance should come from strangers.

 

[IdesOmarch]

I thought this was interestin':

"That's hot." Paris Hilton

 

[NeverlandClub23]

I would happily accept "nice heels". A male coworker of mine called a pair of mine hooker heels! Now that is NOT a compliment!

I agree, it's a nice compliment unless given with a creepy smile and a look up and down.

I was wearing a pair of knee-high heeled boots and a guy told me he loved "hooker" boots. That is also not a compliment. Well, unless I changed professions.

 

[wvjules]

I don't know why complementing someone on their attire, appearance, shoes, scarf, etc constitutes "coming on" to someone. Not everyone has ill intentions. Take the compliment for what it's worth....a compliment.

It never occured to me until this thread that someone would be offended by being complimented. I guess I shouldn't be surprised.

 

[IdesOmarch]

I don't know why complementing someone on their attire, appearance, shoes, scarf, etc constitutes "coming on" to someone. Not everyone has ill intentions. Take the compliment for what it's worth....a compliment.

It never occured to me until this thread that someone would be offended by being complimented. I guess I shouldn't be surprised.

We live in a world now where you can get sued for giving a compliment in the work place. (Not sure it would hold up in court.) But I have heard of this happening. Its really a shame.

And what's wrong with a "come on" anyway? Would you rather everyone think you were hideous and run away screaming from you when they see you? I don't get that either. If a woman comes on to me, (hypothetically speaking) I may not say, yeah, anytime, but I'm also not going to get offended either. I never really got that. This is soooooo 21st century.

 

[Uncle Remus]

We live in a world now where you can get sued for giving a compliment in the work place. (Not sure it would hold up in court.) But I have heard of this happening. Its really a shame.

And what's wrong with a "come on" anyway? Would you rather everyone think you were hideous and run away screaming from you when they see you? I don't get that either. If a woman comes on to me, (hypothetically speaking) I may not say, yeah, anytime, but I'm also not going to get offended either. I never really got that. This is soooooo 21st century.

Evolution moves on with ya or without ya!

 

[DisneyScraps]

I A male coworker of mine called a pair of mine hooker heels! Now that is NOT a compliment!

It all depends on the look you are going for

Lisa