You know, I was thinking about my post and I want to amend it...
You've gotten some great advice from us, however, many of us have been to DL so many times that we forget what it's like to be a first/second, third time visitor.
While I've given you advice on how to maximize your ride time, you also need time to just soak in the magic. The main things, ride wise, you want to hit would be Space Mountain, Star Tours, Matterhorn, Peter Pan, Big Thunder Mountain, Haunted Mansion (which is a MUST in November because it is re-themed for Halloween/Christmas), and Splash Mountain. Those are the big rides. If you're spending the whole day there, you really shouldn't have a problem hitting them.
You'll probably want to catch the parade.. check if there are one or two parades that day. Everyone tends to crowd around the beginning of Main Street and the castle hub. Ask at information, which is at the front of the castle hub if this is a parade that stops or if it is continuous. If it stops, it will probably stop in 3 places. Main Street circle, the castle hub circle, and around It's a Small World. Also ask where it starts (sometimes it goes main street to Small World, or reverse.) Either way, stopping or not, a lesser crowded area to watch is up by It's a Small World.
The fireworks are best seen at the juncture of the hub and main street. Get there about 30 minutes before they start.. that area gets PACKED.
They may have another show there called Fantasmic. I LOVE this show. It's located on the river around liberty square and new orleans square. IF you have the money, getting a priority seat for this show is SO worth it. There's usually two performances, one at 8pm and one at 10 pm. If you do the 8pm show, it's tough to get to the fireworks. If you go to the 10 pm show, it's basically impossible to get a space after the fireworks unless you have a priority seat. People start saving space for this show 2-3 hours before hand. It makes the river area REALLY crowded. The priority seats are expensive.. I think around $50 for the show, but so worth it. You get a personal dessert/cheese tray, drink of your choice (coffee, tea, hot chocolate, soda) and a seat that's dead center for the show. If you are going to get the seats, get the 10pm show. You can get there after the fireworks and you won't have to fight to find a seat.
Eating:
There's a place opposite the Indian Jones ride, Bengal Barbeque, that serves, what I call Meat On a Stick.. It's AWESOME! The chicken or beef sticks are fantastic. R2P2 (Red Rocket Pizza Port) in front of Space Mountain is good, too. I always have the Chicken Fusilli. I believe it's one of the few cafeteria places that gives soda refills. If you want table dining, make a reservation at Orlean's Cafe. They have THE BEST Monte Cristo sandwiches I have eaten ANYWHERE. (it's the same sandwich in the Blue Bayou for about $10 less).
For dessert, there's a little shop down a side street in Main Street that serves fresh made chocolate chip cookie ice cream sandwiches. Also on Main Street, there's a bakery that has fantastic cinnamon rolls which are BIG and great for breakfast. Ask for it heated.
I would avoid the mexican place, Rancho del Zocalo, next to Big Thunder, several of my friends and myself, have not felt well after eating there. The Village Haus, in Fantasyland isn't great and neither is the Hungry Bear in Critter Country - they're both over-priced-dry-burgers places.
If there's anything else you want to know, just ask
If you choose to reserve seats for Fantasmic or make a reservation at Orleans Cafe, CALL DISNEY at least week before you go. The number is on the Disneyland Web site.. I don't remember it off the top of my head anymore.
