In 1976 Ronald Reagan used the story of ONE woman who was cheated the system and started the entire "welfare queen" narrative. Let's note also that his example was arrested for what she did-so the system worked. She was found guilty of fraud and perjury.
From that original speech, the script was born and it has been used ever since despite the fact that the hard data completely refutes it. Moreover, since 1996, there is a law called the Personal Responsibility and Work Opportunity Act. There are lifetime limits on how long you can receive benefits, increased enforcement of child support and you must begin working after 2 years. As for "they just don't want to work" well, since the majority of folks receiving welfare are children..unless you want to reintroduce child labor, then yeah, they don't want to work. Another large portion are disabled, many from wounds they received fighting wars to protect people's freedom to call them lazy.
Direct assistance benefits account for about 4% of our federal budget, $50 billion. However, waste and fraud in military spending costs us an estimated $170 billion, and "gifts" to corporations are about another $170 billion and capital gains and tax loopholes cost us about $130 a year. And those figures are from before the year 2000, those costs have gone WAY up since the 2 wars and the additional tax cuts.
There are larger issues for taxpayers to be angry about than the single welfare recipient you see in Walmart buying too much milk.
And who says I'm not angry about those things either? Heck, I got a nice long list of things I'm angry about when it comes to our gov't.

You are free to feel whatever you like for whatever issues you want, as am I. Like I said previously, I knew these people, lived and worked with them and therefore base my feelings on things I myself have witnessed. You can discount it all you want with a history lesson, but it doesn't change the fact that some of us have seen it personally (and BTW there is much more to it than buying a few extra gallons of milk

Ironically, there is alot of "just because you don't see hunger out there doesn't mean it doesn't exist". Yet its wrong to point out the same about welfare abuse? Interesting.