So sorry to read about Rachel's prognosis. I have been praying (since the initial news) she would progressively get "better", and the hearing aid would work for the rest of her life. Of all the senses, H. Keller always said she would rather have "sight" than any of the others. Ditto. Thank God for giving your precious Rachel the ability to "enjoy" sound as a young child. she will ALWAYS have these imprints in her mind to draw upon years from now.
Think of the small blessings, as she "knows" the sweet sound of your voices. After the volume is lowered, and then finally non-existent...she will forever hear the echo of your soothing vocal reassurance, calling her name and telling her you love her. These are "priceless blessings", even in the midst of such disheartening news. Thank the Lord you have time on your side, and her hearing isn't lost overnight. This enables you take the time to say the things you all treasure. To remind her of your love, caring and appreciation. To build a "library" of sound, for her to store safely in the corners of her memory.
She will always be able to see your smile, and know your moods...understand laughter and dancing, etc. She will always be able to enjoy Television (closed caption) and read. Two things which will constantly keep her connected and involved with the hearing world around her.
You are a very strong family, and have endured the first round of afflictions concerning Rachel. I remain confident you will all come together, and have the strength to maintain a solid, protective and nurturing environment to see her through this trial of life. Over the years, I have seen myself become overwhelmed with just the "idea" of what is to occur in certain situations. When I have been faced with a life crisis or obstacles, I have seemingly made them worse in the confines of my mind. After they have passed, I have learned they were "never as bad" as I envisioned.
I am getting much better at dealing with these events. I now relent, and remind myself--"if I am not part of the solution, I am part of the problem." I always work towards the positive, as there is one in every situation. Even if difficult to discern (in the face of all the disappointment, etc), there is always a silver lining to every cloud. I shift my focus from the despair of the situation, to the endless possibility.
You are blessed to have Rachel, and she is blessed to have all of you. She seems to be a very well-adjusted and happy little girl. Continue your lifestyle, and wrap her in the warmth of FAMILY and LOVE. She will continue to thrive, and astound you with her achievements. Maintain a positive outlook...and remember, one person's "handicap" is another person's "gift". She is a "special" angel from God. You are fortunate to have her in your world. Time to hop off the soap box....TTFN.
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