Your kind words and continued support are extremely comforting. DH called just a while ago, all the arrangements were made today, and the service will be tomorrow at 4:00 pm. I know this is very hard on him, yet he acts so strong and calm. I asked again, if he wished for DD & I to fly in this eve, and he reiterated in was not necessary. I'm relieved and glad for this, as DD needs the continuity of school, etc. His dad will be flown here for another service and burial (in SB). We will all be reunited then, and have the closure we all need. Again, I thank each and every one of you for the supportive words and kind, generous prayers.
*On a good note...my DM & DD are vacationing in Melbourne Beach (absolutely hopeless SNOWBIRDS). DH is going to drive over and visit them early Saturday morning. This will be so good for him, a change of scenery and pace. They absolutely adore him, and are elated at the chance to see him and spend some time together. Every cloud, has a silver lining. DH seemed so upbeat when he talked about seeing them, and he actually used the words "other father" when he mentioned them (made me a bit sad to hear him say these words under the present circumstances).
MOM POPPINS...you continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. I will add some extra this eve, for the baby boy and Rachel. All will be better with time, and you are consigned to do the best you possibly can for her...as I've said before, both of you are equally blessed to have one another. I LOVE watching the seconds peel-away on the MATERNITY CLOCK at the bottom of your post! Any ideas for a "name" yet? Would you welcome any suggestions from the peanut gallery? (US!!).
Caroline!! TWO WEEKS! Wow, the time has FLOWN past.

Be sure to scope out the place and take notice of any/all improvements while there (please). What a lovely time of year to visit. The weather is cool, and not humid at all. I would love to visit this time of year, but w DD in school...it's not feasible.

Thanks for the nice note on your folks. I can relate to everything you wrote. I feel the same for my own DP's. Wow...your mom is a TRUE YANKEE! Three cheers for longevity! May it run true to form for you as well.
Janet...so sorry for your losses. Both of my folks have battled heart trouble in the past. They are both in such GREAT shape physically (exterior), and walk every day (2-4 miles). They are slim/trim , and look much younger than their years. Yet, I too worry about them all the time. DD just turned 73 last week, and DM turns 73 in April. I LOVE them more than all the stars in the heavens.

I want them to live forever, as each child wishes for their parents. I also wish we didn't live so far apart (they live in NY) and miss them every day. Thanks for the reminders, about appreciating people, and cherishing the moments we share. We should each "Live each day as if it were your last....because, someday--it will be."
**My sister is an RN!! Does this make me part of the NURSE group too? I can "TALK NURSING" fluently (LOL): SHOT...I.V., BEDPAN...OXYGEN...SHOT...!!
**Let's LIST the DOLPHIN DOGGIES each of us has! We know there are YORKIES in the group. We have a big, Tiger-looking dog, (Cross between a dane/bull dog/?) named MAC. I'll post a picture of him soon. He's a BIG BABY, a real LICKIE-LICKIE (kissie-kissie) dog! Today, he was my emotional salvation after talking with DH in the morning. He instinctively knows when I feel down...and sits on top of my feet...facing (looking) the same direction I am. Every once in a while, he "glances" out of the corner of his eye at me. It's hysterical, and he appears so Stoic and serious, as we sit in the silence together. Animals...where would we be without them?
