New Dear Teen Board.

[inlalaland]

okay well its their problem not mine. they need to get over it. you all act like the dis is a perfect world and crap but it isnt. people are going to offend people and we dont need other people on here trying to act like peacemakers.

It's a MESSAGE BOARD, not MIDDLE SCHOOL, why bother start drama and try to make people feel bad at all? No, it's not a "perfect world", but that's really no excuse to be rude to people and make jokes that you know will probably end up offending someone.

 

[life of the party]

guys, rachel said that before megans post .
she didnt mean to offend her, or anyone else.
we both realise it is a serious problem, and understand it.
but in reality, MANY people joke about that.
i mean, i often say "WOW i'm gonna go kill myself now"
i understand suicide is a serious problem, but joke about it.
rachel wasnt trying to make fun of cutting, she was simply kidding around.

rachel, you gotta cool your jets girl (;

 

[Vally]

guys, rachel said that before megans post .
she didnt mean to offend her, or anyone else.
we both realise it is a serious problem, and understand it.
but in reality, MANY people joke about that.
i mean, i often say "WOW i'm gonna go kill myself now"
i understand suicide is a serious problem, but joke about it.
rachel wasnt trying to make fun of cutting, she was simply kidding around.

rachel, you gotta cool your jets girl (;

I know people joke about killing themselves, but I knew a girl who did actually kill herself. She was some-what of my friend. People told me she often said she was going to take her life, but no one believed her. Imagine what a shock it was for us when we found out, right before we were supposed to leave for a field trip. I know you probably don't mean it but if you say something like that with sarcasm (I'm not saying you are, in fact, I'm not mad or anything, I'm just sharing something with you) it's different. So please be careful what you say. This is not directed at you at all, I'm just saying what I felt would be right.

Els, you're right, this isn't middle school. So everyone should just forget about it. We're all here to be friends, right? I mean, honestly, this is Disney-related for cryin out loud!

Speakin the truth,
Leah=]

 

[AliceinHalloweentown]

Dear Meg +Els
Thanks for your support!
-Megan

Dear Meg [again],
As long as they know you're there for them, I'm sure they'll pull out OK. <3
It's the times when one is left completely alone with one's thoughts that sucks.
-Megan

Dear Rachel,
I didn't see your post at all.. I personally am not very offended, but I could see where others would be.. it's a touchy subject. (as it should be)
-Megan

I used to joke, too.. and sometimes I still do. I guess it helps to pretend like it isn't so serious sometimes :/ I do know a limit and where I can push it, though.

 

[SKJA124]

Dear sleep,
ooooohmygosh I need you tonight. I need courage. *deep breath*
-kat

dear hair,
WORK WITH ME HERE!
-kat

dear josh,
jeez dude! will you talk to me ONCE in lamplighters??? :/
-kat

 

[Vally]

Dear Megan,
Congrats to you!
Leah=]

 

[Smiley.Socks]

dear hair,
WORK WITH ME HERE!
-kat

Dear Kat,

that cracked me up!

-Elin. :]

 

[minniemouse440044]

you guys are awesome.
seriously some people here annoy the hell out of me.

if it werent for katie, tom, john, devun, and kayla, and steph, id be gone.

 

[inlalaland]

guys, rachel said that before megans post .
she didnt mean to offend her, or anyone else.
we both realise it is a serious problem, and understand it.
but in reality, MANY people joke about that.
i mean, i often say "WOW i'm gonna go kill myself now"
i understand suicide is a serious problem, but joke about it.
rachel wasnt trying to make fun of cutting, she was simply kidding around.

rachel, you gotta cool your jets girl (;

A lot of people do joke about it, but that doesn't make it okay.
There's a lot that people joke about that isn't funny at all and offends a lot of people, so I just try and steer clear from those jokes just in case.
I completely understand where you're coming from though Katie. =) Like Leah (Vally) said, you just have to be careful when you joke around like that. But it's cool, no harm done.

 

[minniemouse440044]

dear dis,
AJKSDDHKSAH
-rachel

 

[Vally]

A lot of people do joke about it, but that doesn't make it okay.
There's a lot that people joke about that isn't funny at all and offends a lot of people, so I just try and steer clear from those jokes just in case.
I completely understand where you're coming from though Katie. =) Like Leah (Vally) said, you just have to be careful when you joke around like that. But it's cool, no harm done.

I totally agree Elsie. I used to say things like that, but now I don't say anything like that at all. There's nothing wrong with saying stuff like that.


BTW, Elsie, one of you icons didn't show up. It has a box with an X. Not sure if that's just my comp being stupid or what.
Leah=]

 

[imabrat]

I never post here.. but for once I'm happy and want to share it [also the scariest thing I've ever posted here]

Dear TB,
In 3 weeks exactly, I'll be 6 months self-harm free.
Woot. DD
-Megan

 

[My Wild Love]

I never post here.. but for once I'm happy and want to share it [also the scariest thing I've ever posted here]

Dear TB,
In 3 weeks exactly, I'll be 6 months self-harm free.
Woot. DD
-Megan

AWWW x 1235467564
Congrats!

Dear sleep,
ooooohmygosh I need you tonight. I need courage. *deep breath*
-kat

dear hair,
WORK WITH ME HERE!
-kat

dear josh,
jeez dude! will you talk to me ONCE in lamplighters??? :/
-kat

hahah the hair one really made me laugh.

 

[OneTreeHill]

Dear Megan,
Congrats to you!
Leah=]

Dear Leah,
Just wanted to say I love your signature.
Jess.

I never post here.. but for once I'm happy and want to share it [also the scariest thing I've ever posted here]

Dear TB,
In 3 weeks exactly, I'll be 6 months self-harm free.
Woot. DD
-Megan

Dear Megan,
Congrats!
Jess.

 

[AmandaSparks730]

Dear Meg +Els
Thanks for your support!
-Megan

Dear Meg [again],
As long as they know you're there for them, I'm sure they'll pull out OK. <3
It's the times when one is left completely alone with one's thoughts that sucks.
-Megan

Dear Rachel,
I didn't see your post at all.. I personally am not very offended, but I could see where others would be.. it's a touchy subject. (as it should be)
-Megan

I used to joke, too.. and sometimes I still do. I guess it helps to pretend like it isn't so serious sometimes :/ I do know a limit and where I can push it, though.

Dear Megan,

I've expressed my concerns openly, but my friend (she's like my BEST friend) says "I'm sorry, but I can't stop, no one can get me to stop". It worries me. She knows I'm there for her, but I wish there was something I could do :-/

Meg

 

[StitchfansJr]

dear __,
lolz@you trying to be cool.
-me

 

[DramaQueen]

Dear Megan,

CONGRATS!
Stay Strong

-Caitlin

 

[life of the party]

dear kidwhomakesmecrazy,
LOLOLOL
we're friends ?
i love my life.
i do.
really.
its great.
lmao.
-katie

dear leah,
i'm like 99% sure it was you i talked to you about him^
LOL so the day before school
i texted him and said
"will you be my friend tomorrow?"
he said "ya"
so now we're friends again
lmaooooooo
-katie

rachel,
stop, your getting rediculous.
-katie

 

[princesskelz]

Dear YOU!
GROW UP AGAIN!!!
Kelsey

Dear kid at LOTF
you are hot....espically your snake bites
Kelsey

Dear self
GET BETTER SOON!!!!
Kelsey

 

[Mandy91]

Dear Megan,

I've expressed my concerns openly, but my friend (she's like my BEST friend) says "I'm sorry, but I can't stop, no one can get me to stop". It worries me. She knows I'm there for her, but I wish there was something I could do :-/

Meg

Dear Meg,

I know you weren't talking to me, but I just wanted to say you are doing a great thing for her just by being there. At this point that's all you can really do, she has to want to stop in order to stop. When that time comes, you'll be there, just like you are now. And that means the world to her, I'm sure. Just knowing that someone is there for you and cares makes it better. =)

-Mandy