I'm tired of being told that if I'm spending $3500 for a trip, then $30-$50 shouldn't matter to me.
The fact is it DOES matter to me. Period. Whether you think it should or not.... it DOES.
Therefore I don't like the possibility of getting charged for services not rendered.
I'm also tired of the implications that just because I don't view an ADR as a strict moral obligation, I've got an entitlement issue. If you knew me in real life, that thought wouldn't cross your head. If anything I've got a tendency towards over-responsibility, making way for others even at cost to myself, and being too much of a people-pleaser. It actually took work and some serious life experiences to realize that it's okay to stand up for myself sometimes and it's okay to voice an opinion and it's okay to do what's best for me sometimes.
If you are walking in front of me at MK and stop in the middle of the path to look at something or have a conversation, I don't get annoyed. If you're walking ten abreast taking up a whole path, I go out of MY way to avoid running into you, even if it's your group taking up the whole path. If you are standing behind me at a parade and I see you have a small kid with you, I'm likely to offer your kid a spot in front of me. If you're my coworker and you want vacation the same week I do, and we can't both get it, I'm likely to tell you "Go ahead we're flexible, you take that week." If you're in front of me at the grocery store hogging the aisle with your cart, I'm likely to wait patiently while you pick your brand of spaghetti, or if it goes on a long time, to VERY nicely say excuse me and give you a sincere smile and "Don't worry about it" when you move your cart and apologize.
This is how I operate in life. I try not to be entitled and try to think of others and try to be responsible.
Cancelling a reservation (which is not really even a reservation) on vacation, with notice, is simply NOT a moral issue in my book.
I don't think I'm entitled. I don't think I'm a sign of what's wrong with society today. And I don't think I'm silly for disliking the thought of paying $10 per head for cancelling a reservation that isn't even a real reservation.