New Boys and Girls

[3mtn-kate]

I know we had this thread a while ago and I really liked it and I don't remember if it got deleted or if people just stopped posting.

Anyways, here it is again!

Post all your stories, encounters, problems and anything else you can think of about relationships or anything else of that nature!!!

Post away y'all

 

[ginnygirl102]

Ok one of my best guy friends asked me out this summer and I said yes but broke up with him a week later cuz it was too wierd. He won't talk to me at all now. He's making me feel really bad about it so please....HELP!!!

 

[MrsSparrow..]

ooft, I was looking for this thread the other day.

I don't need advice as such, but I just need to let this out

I broke up with my boyfriend last week because I saw him more as a friend than anything. Then I find out a few days later, that my friend Amy* likes him and the two of them were going out on their own that following Friday. I tried to get Amy* to admit to me that she liked Joe but she consistently denied it. All my friends were trying to convince me that their little get-together on Friday was purely a friend thing, but she told me she had a date with a "random guy she doesn't know that well" on that Friday.

I don't know whether I should be annoyed at my friend for trying to go on a date with my ex-bf.. But then again I broke up with him, so maybe I shouldn't be mad.

ANYWHOO.

 

[Disney.Dreamer]

ooft, I was looking for this thread the other day.

I don't need advice as such, but I just need to let this out

I broke up with my boyfriend last week because I saw him more as a friend than anything. Then I find out a few days later, that my friend Amy* likes him and the two of them were going out on their own that following Friday. I tried to get Amy* to admit to me that she liked Joe but she consistently denied it. All my friends were trying to convince me that their little get-together on Friday was purely a friend thing, but she told me she had a date with a "random guy she doesn't know that well" on that Friday.

I don't know whether I should be annoyed at my friend for trying to go on a date with my ex-bf.. But then again I broke up with him, so maybe I shouldn't be mad.

ANYWHOO.

Hmm...
I'm not good at giving advice in that subject, but my personal opinion is I would be disappointed in that friend for lying to you about who she is going out with. I mean she doesnt have to tell you that, but still....lying=bad.

 

[3mtn-kate]

Ok one of my best guy friends asked me out this summer and I said yes but broke up with him a week later cuz it was too wierd. He won't talk to me at all now. He's making me feel really bad about it so please....HELP!!!

ugh that sucks i've been in that situation

he's just hurt, i think that since you guys were such good friends he thought that it would just be natural that you guys would be good as a couple.

but obviously it doesn't always work like that. I think you should just tell him that it wasn't really anything against him, or your friendship. Just that it felt uncomfortable to be anything more.

 

[ginnygirl102]

Thanks that will prob help! He doesn't respond to my txt at all but he can't avoid it if i call him but I dont wanna do that....I guess I'll wait till school starts.

 

[3mtn-kate]

Yeah...he's basically forced to see you then I guess.