I just thought of another "never again". After our most recent trip in Nov 2010 as a group totalling 7 people, all very good friends who were helping me celebrate my 40th a couple of months early, both my DH and I declared NEVER AGAIN. We had a good time...but everyone had such diverse touring styles that it was all just TOO MUCH!
One example: It was our first evening at the MK and Wishes was just about to start - my FAVE of the nighttime events in all the world. My best friend shrugged this off, instead preferring to stay inside a store on Main Street and shop! Turns out this was to be a MAJOR preferred activity for her, so she spent extra hours inside the stores all week long. No biggie. Just a shock to me that anyone would spend SO MUCH TIME inside the stores, as cool and uniquely themed as they may be, looking at expensive merchandise than doing anything else.
The most frustrating incident came one morning when we had just arrived at DHS. "Wait" my friend said. "I have to pee." Okay. We all waited as she dashed into a restroom near the front of the park. A few minutes later, she joined us. Then my BIL decided he had to go. OKAY. We waited. 3, 4 ,5 minutes. BIL arrives back and then my friend's DH decided he had to go. Seriously?? Now, I thought they were all messing with me, but no. I must admit that I lost it just a little and shouted "Who has to go when Sheldon comes back? Cause I think I'll wait til he or she comes back AND THEN I'm going to go pee." Not my finest moment. Did I mention that we were a group of 7 grown ups travelling without children. I mean COME ON - we wasted 15 minutes doing the pee-pee dance. SO annoying.
Heed the warning folks...the magic does NOT necessarily multiply when you go with more people. My DH and I agreed that the best trip we ever had was just the two of us back in '06. And I have read dozens of trip reports that echo this same sentiment - travelling with a large group of friends or extended family comes with a boat load of issues and challenges and stress and potential meltdowns of EPIC proportion!
All that being said, DH and I must be slow learners cause our next trip this Nov will consist of no less than 12 people (including 4 children).![]()
Thanks for posting this....Makes me feel better. Last summer we met up with dear friends and their 3 kids but we stayed at different hotels and only met up for 2 park days. We had a great time and I was sort of lamenting this summer we had no one to meet up with but DH reminded me of some times we felt slowed down or having to adjust our schedule, etc. I was feeling sort of missing it a bit until I read your warning!!!

