I got so tired of Netfix I have my account 'on hold'..........I'm gonna give them another try maybe they they have improved? My account has been on hold for four months. I got so sick of all the blu rays being out (and I was paying extra for that service?) and new releases I was waiting for 2-3 months on average.
Netflix's service is deliberately designed to be a service for the mainstream entertainment marketplace. The issue is that it needs to be substantially
affordable for a great number of people. Given how much consumers are willing to pay for a subscription service like Netflix, they cannot design the service so that it provides every new release, in your chosen format, within a few days of your wanting it; they cannot even promise to get any narrowly characterized set of titles (i.e., "new releases on Blu-ray") to you within a week or two - it would be simply way too expensive for the average customers.
Netflix's offering is primarily (1) streaming (but not for my family, because we have a hearing impaired member); and (2) their vast catalog of titles - decades upon decades of movies and television series. New releases, and new releases on Blu-ray, are indeed available, but there is only a limited number of copies of each available, and of course there is very high demand for these titles as soon as they're released. If you wait a few months, and then seek out those options, you'll have a much higher level of satisfaction with Netflix.
It should be noted that no one actually does it better. That's a reflection of the fact that there simply isn't a demand for a service that is substantially better than Netflix, in the ways you were addressing (at a suitably higher price-point, of course - while surely everyone would love better service at the current price, that's an unreasonable expectation from an industry with profit obligations to shareholders).
There is a way to get new releases on Blu-ray, reliably, shortly after they're released: Buy the discs retail. If you're looking for a rental situation, then you can create your own rental simulate: After you're done watching the discs, sell them on eBay. The cost of your rental is the difference between how much you pay for them and how much you receive for selling them.