My experience was several years ago, so things may have changed a bit since then, BUT... I was booked on a Land/Sea pkg in 2001. (oct, to be exact) I had requested Poly for our Land portion BUT dh was active duty AF at the time and due to circumstances in the country (9/11) he was denied leave 2 weeks before our trip. Disney was going to charge us to rebook but then reconsidered and offered to let us rebook fee-free if we rebooked within a yr. We rebooked for May 2002.
In order to keep the rebooking process from getting complicated, I accepted the fact that we would need to stay at the GF. (it's the hotel that is booked with the L/S pkg we were on) I had the same feelings you had about the GF. At the time my children were 11. 9. 6 & 2. I worried so much about the GF being too stuffy for my active (normal) children. To add to my nerves, we would most likely be booked into a concierge level room. What would "those people" think if my children made any extra noise?
Jasminetigger, THIS IS DISNEY!!! My worrying was all for naught! The GRAND FLORIDIAN is set up for FAMILIES! That includes small children. I was so pleasantly surprised! It was probably the BEST choice we have made! The kids LOVED it there. The small, child-size furniture just made it that much more inviting to the little ones and set my mind at ease.
I don't know if they still have character greetings in the mornings in the lobby, but that just THRILLED my then 2 yr old! She "goofed" around with Goofy one morning in the lobby and fell in LOVE with Minnie Mouse! (my older kids have never really liked any mascot type characters)
Jasmine, if you call ahead and talk to anyone at the GF, you might mention that you had to cancel a recent trip so you want this one to be extra special. (how disappointing it was) Who knows! You could have one of your "million dreams" come true. I wouldn't expect it, but it never hurts to mention it.
Others have mentioned the launch from MK!! It is so wonderful to be able to bypass the long monorail lines after Wishes or just at the end of a busy day and take a nice relaxing boatride over to GF!!
I know all the other posters have told you how much they enjoyed GF. I'm really just adding a nod here but I wanted to let you know, others shared your concerns and still LOVED it!
I would stay at the GF in a heartbeat...although I have always wanted to stay at the Poly too.
I really don't think you'll be disappointed. If you really want that island feel, book a night at the luau. We did that also..and walked over that pathway that people are talking about. It was a nice stroll.
We even got to see the Pumpkin coach go through the courtyard. (probably going to pick up a bride) You won't see that at the Poly...(I don't think?)
It was just so DISNEY, we LOVED it and I hope you and your family will too. Breathe easy.
Familyof6
