This is great info, AllieV - thanks!
Thank you all for the tips. I can see that the "will the seller be insulted" question is a bit subjective

. Although to AllieV's example, when the most success comes when what you're willing to pay is within $10 of what the seller is asking, I think you're taking the "insult" question out of the equation. Please don't get me wrong - my intention is not to break any records by getting a very low price on a resale; I am very prepared to pay in the range of what the majority of resale contracts
posted on these boards (and I think that is an important distinction) are going for. I can imagine that there are plenty of people buying resale that are unaware of actual selling prices when heading into this. What all of the info provided by you guys does tell me is that I should probably not bother with, for example, the $90-100 SSR contracts when I'm only willing to pay a lot less for that.
I do find the high price p/p of some resale contracts out there surprising. I understand that people are under water and have loans to pay off, but maybe some people are actually paying these high prices? I would think that the brokers would advise the seller that some of these list prices were too high otherwise, no? Kind of like selling your house - if houses like mine are selling for $300,000, it would be hard to convince an agent to list mine for $500,000. It's just really interesting to see such a wide range of pricing for nearly identical products, which makes the "where to begin?" part a bit confusing.