Need tips and guidance for Disney World with Autistic Children

Good idea about going to the parks every other day! We'll probably do that or go to the parks early and come back to the resort midday for lunch, nap, and/or a swim. The girls love to swim. I hope to utilize the quiet pool where there aren't a lot of other people around. We'll probably all stay together. I go to WDW every year so I don't have a problem skipping things if the girls aren't into it. This will be the first time for the girls going to something of Disney's magnitude, so it will be trial by fire. They could surprise us and like something we didn't think they would like and hate something we'd thought they would enjoy. We'll just wait and see! But the girls will be in charge. If they want to leave a park, we'll leave. No problem. Plus we'll have a rental car so we can come and go as we please and not have to deal with WDW transportation.

Marc, judging from your post, you don't need our advice----you totally understand the type of approach you'll need!!:thumbsup2 Very adaptable to your nieces, and what kind of day they're having. We always drive down, so we have a car at our disposal, which is also a big help. You really sound like you've got the basic philosophy of traveling with ASD kids covered. I hope you guys have a great trip!!
 
Marc, judging from your post, you don't need our advice----you totally understand the type of approach you'll need!!:thumbsup2 Very adaptable to your nieces, and what kind of day they're having. We always drive down, so we have a car at our disposal, which is also a big help. You really sound like you've got the basic philosophy of traveling with ASD kids covered. I hope you guys have a great trip!!

Thanks Kirsten!:worship:
 
i don't know your nieces sleep schedule, but my wife and I hit the pool after dinner one night, kind of later and almost NO one was in the pool but maybe 2 or 3 other families and this was at the main pool site!

You mentioned the nieces were early risers. I bet this would work in the wee hours too.

A whole pool almost all to yourselves would be lovely and the quiet pools (at least at CSR) were virtually always almost empty.
 
i don't know your nieces sleep schedule, but my wife and I hit the pool after dinner one night, kind of later and almost NO one was in the pool but maybe 2 or 3 other families and this was at the main pool site!

You mentioned the nieces were early risers. I bet this would work in the wee hours too.

A whole pool almost all to yourselves would be lovely and the quiet pools (at least at CSR) were virtually always almost empty.

Thank you for the tip!
 

This will be the first time for the girls going to something of Disney's magnitude, so it will be trial by fire. They could surprise us and like something we didn't think they would like and hate something we'd thought they would enjoy. We'll just wait and see!

Something you can do to help them prepare for rides or to get an idea of things that they may want to try is to go to youtube and show them the rides. Knowing what to expect ahead of time helps a lot for many ASD kids.
 
My son is almost 8 and has Asperger's. He has noise sensativities, anxiety, tics, and OCD. We went last year when he has just turned 7. The best thing for us, was going at his pace. Sometimes that meant coming from thepark just after lunch, or going later. We went on many rides, but picked the ones that he liked for multiple rides.

Staying on site was great. we had a backpack with us in the parks with a "bag of tricks" (as we like to call it). It had his Ipod, some snacks, his Nintendo DS, water/drinks, even the camera. This gave him things to do. We also invented a game (this was based on his area of expertise at the time, Pokemon) called pokemon 20 questions :) That helped pass time too.

I guess the best advice is to read the kids... it may even mean (if there are 2 adults) sometimes splitting up and giving the 2 girls breaks from themselves even.

Have fun planning! We saw so much progress with our son last year on this trip that we are planning again for January!

Charlene
 
GACs are only used for attractions and if the park is busy, the attractions are only one part of the situation. Waiting in other places (like bathrooms, restaurants, etc) and moving around the park can be just as much of a problem. Many people have found that planning services like TourGuide Mike or RideMax are as useful or even more useful than a GAC because they can help you to be in the places that are least busy at the least busy times. Many people have posted that using one of those services, they never waited more than 10 minutes for anything and were in parks where the crowd levels were much more manageable for their needs.

I'm not saying not to consider a GAC, just to be aware that there are tools that may be even more helpful to you than a GAC.

:cheer2: I want to second this advice!!!
GAC's can only do so much when you're in an amusement park. There will be crowds, not just in lines but everywhere, learning to navigate the crowds or avoid them as much as possible was really our best defense. I am grateful for FP's and GAC's but TGM was an invaluable tool for our family!
This is what worked best for us (2 Aspies & 1 Tourettes):
Hit the parks at rope drop (avoid EMH park) & do your most desired rides in the first couple hours. Consider the rest of the day free time.
Seriously (!!!) plan out your eating options for each park prior to trip- spectrum kids have food preferences that make it almost impossible to wing it! This was our BIGGEST issue! My DS did not eat for the first 4 days last trip- not kidding! Look at childrens menus online, make a list of things they might eat & have it on hand during the trip!
No one handles special needs better than Disney but good planning is still essential. Do some homework and have fun.
 
Don't remember if this is mentioned yet, but it bares repeating.


Call the Disney Dining line and let the chef's know about any special dining needs in advance. They can and will acomadate (sp??) any and all special needs and make the trip truly magical
 
Don't remember if this is mentioned yet, but it bares repeating.


Call the Disney Dining line and let the chef's know about any special dining needs in advance. They can and will acomadate (sp??) any and all special needs and make the trip truly magical

You can find contact information for allergies or special diet needs in post #3 of the disABILITIES FAQs thread at the top if this board or use the link in my signature.
 
Don't remember if this is mentioned yet, but it bares repeating.


Call the Disney Dining line and let the chef's know about any special dining needs in advance. They can and will acomadate (sp??) any and all special needs and make the trip truly magical

Great info! :thumbsup2 If your neices are on a CF/GF diet this is especially important. Gluten is in everything!
 
My dd6 has Asperger's and we go quite often. Here are some rides that are completely unbearable to her so you may want to take caution with these rides with your nieces:

All of the 4D movies: ITTBAB, HISTK, Philharmagic, etc.
Dinosaur
Figment-there's a burst of air at the end that sends her screaming
Splash-she doesn't like water
Astroorbiter
Dark Rides-she has a personal flashlight for these
Loud shows with lots of applause such as Lion King, American Idol, Fantasmic
Lights Motor Action-WAY too intense-smells, noises, etc.
Fireworks-she has special earphones for these

This seems to be a long list but even taking out these rides we have a GREAT time. Also, the characters used to be very intimidating for her. It took about 3 or 4 visits before she'd go near them so be prepared. Let them set your pace and be prepared to leave the parks or find a resting place in moments of overstimulation. WDW can be an acquired joy for these kids, once they realize it's safe and they become accustomed to the stimulation.

Good luck!
 
Good idea about going to the parks every other day! We'll probably do that or go to the parks early and come back to the resort midday for lunch, nap, and/or a swim. The girls love to swim. I hope to utilize the quiet pool where there aren't a lot of other people around. We'll probably all stay together. I go to WDW every year so I don't have a problem skipping things if the girls aren't into it. This will be the first time for the girls going to something of Disney's magnitude, so it will be trial by fire. They could surprise us and like something we didn't think they would like and hate something we'd thought they would enjoy. We'll just wait and see! But the girls will be in charge. If they want to leave a park, we'll leave. No problem. Plus we'll have a rental car so we can come and go as we please and not have to deal with WDW transportation.

I will tell you that your nieces might surprise you. When we took ds for the first time, I was thinking he would be so overwhelmed and have continuous meltdowns. I was SO wrong! He was a totally different child while in the parks, he actually acted like a neurotypical child. Of course, he did have the meltdowns at bedtime, but it was nothing we could not handle, we were prepared for whatever came. I agree with letting them determine what you do, you want this to be a wonderful experience for them not a stressful one. As for the GAC, we try to go to WDW when there are less crowds. We utilize the GAC when the lines are long and our needs are accommodated. We have not had any problems with this. My one complaint is the lines for the characters meet and greet. DS cannot handle waiting in lines for the characters, most CM allow us to "break" in line, but we do have the occasional CM refuse to accomodate ds, so someone waits in line while another adult hangs with ds. We do take advantage of the character meals so we don't have to deal with the character meet and greet lines. The only time we do the meet and greets is if there is a character that is not apart of the character meals, such as Mulan and Mooshoo (sp?) or Capt Jack Sparrow. Please take note the the GAC states it is not to be used for the character meet and greets, but some CM do make acceptions if you educate them about autism and I am grateful for those that do. HTH.
 
Does anyone know if I will be able to park in the Disabled Parking lots at the theme parks?
 
Only if you have a disabled hang tag or license plate.

The parking lots are patrolled by the Sheriff's Office and the violation ticket is $250. If you have a rental car and do n ot pay the ticket, the rental company will be chasrged the amount of the ticket plus a late fee and they will then charge your credit card.
 
Hi, my DS9 is high functioning autistic spectrum and we just returned form our first WDW trip ever. First let me tell you that I read the GAC thread and Autism threads and found them very helpful but I personally found this Dis er's :worship: KathyRN137 :worship: TP's invaluable as far as finding tips and tricks and getting some ideas for navigating the parks with my ASD son. Jonnie is very rigid about routine and needs to understand every detail of a situation before he is placed in it so before our trip he and I spent lots of time on line. We looked at pictures of the resorts and the parks, watched you tube videos of rides and I read him every detail I could find. While we were on our trip. I utilized social stories and reminded him of things we had learned in our online time. We made use of the GAC and did find it invaluable for our trip as we were there during Thanksgiving and Jonnie would not have been able to manage those lines without help. In regards to character meets we were informed by a helpful CM that the meet and greets that are permanent (ex. the fairys and Mickey in Toon Town) are considered attractions and the GAC can be used. We also kept an emergency bag but ran into one snag Jonnie wanted to hold his own bag like his sisters and he lost it :sad2: which was very upsetting for him. One other idea from the boards (don't remember where exactly) that I tweaked a bit and used was cards. Jonnie is verbal but he regresses when he gets upset, eigther his speech impediments increase or he stops speaking so I started worrying about whether he would talk to a CM if he got lost (a very scary possibility, but a possibility) so I made little business cards with his name "I am Autistic I may not be able to answer your qestions" and all of our cell phone numbers. We told Jonnie to carry them and if he coulden't find us to hand one to a CM and then he diden't have to talk if he was scared or upset we also put one in his backpack, one in his wallet and one in his jacket pocket. We had a great trip but I did notice that Jonnie acted less and less Neurotypical the longer we were there. By the last day he was stimming constantly I think all the crowds and stuff got to be a bit much but he did have fun and talks about it alot still. Hope you have a great trip!
 
Hi, my DS9 is high functioning autistic spectrum and we just returned form our first WDW trip ever. First let me tell you that I read the GAC thread and Autism threads and found them very helpful but I personally found this Dis er's :worship: http://www.disboards.com/member.php?u=113003 :worship: TP's invaluable as far as finding tips and tricks and getting some ideas for navigating the parks with my ASD son. Jonnie is very rigid about routine and needs to understand every detail of a situation before he is placed in it so before our trip he and I spent lots of time on line. We looked at pictures of the resorts and the parks, watched you tube videos of rides and I read him every detail I could find. While we were on our trip. I utilized social stories and reminded him of things we had learned in our online time. We made use of the GAC and did find it invaluable for our trip as we were there during Thanksgiving and Jonnie would not have been able to manage those lines without help. In regards to character meets we were informed by a helpful CM that the meet and greets that are permanent (ex. the fairys and Mickey in Toon Town) are considered attractions and the GAC can be used. We also kept an emergency bag but ran into one snag Jonnie wanted to hold his own bag like his sisters and he lost it :sad2: which was very upsetting for him. One other idea from the boards (don't remember where exactly) that I tweaked a bit and used was cards. Jonnie is verbal but he regresses when he gets upset, eigther his speech impediments increase or he stops speaking so I started worrying about whether he would talk to a CM if he got lost (a very scary possibility, but a possibility) so I made little business cards with his name "I am Autistic I may not be able to answer your qestions" and all of our cell phone numbers. We told Jonnie to carry them and if he coulden't find us to hand one to a CM and then he diden't have to talk if he was scared or upset we also put one in his backpack, one in his wallet and one in his jacket pocket. We had a great trip but I did notice that Jonnie acted less and less Neurotypical the longer we were there. By the last day he was stimming constantly I think all the crowds and stuff got to be a bit much but he did have fun and talks about it alot still. Hope you have a great trip!

Thank you so much for sharing your tips and trip!
 
Some things I have done over the years:

Use a stroller even for an 8 year old.
Use at tot strap especially at night.
Use glow stick necklaces to see child easily.
Put labels on child ie:
Name
Autism/Speech Impared
If alone call <cell number> or 911
Do not command tour, go at their pace.
Eat mid day for a break.
Stay on-site if you can, deluxe is best.
 
Let me start by saying that I have High-Functioning Autism myself, with the advantage of remembering what it was like to be a child giving me insight into how autistic kids process. :)

That said, I never went to a Disney theme park as a child nor was I diagnosed as a child. I wish I had been to a Disney theme park as a child, as I'd probably be of more help now had that been the case. But I have been to Disney World with nieces on the spectrum, who absolutely loved almost everything about the trips, and I have other experiences with more young relatives on the spectrum.

My nieces did not need many accommodations. The extended family broke off into separate groups, giving me charge of the girls. Really, the only thing I can remember that was a "big" problem for the girls was the time that two girls decided to get as wet as possible in sprinklers outside Ariel's Grotto whilst the others were screaming because they did not want to get wet. In the process, one almost took off all her clothes because babies had no clothes on (and that young lady was a teenager... reminded me of myself during my youth, taking off my swimsuit at a private pool party without realizing what I had done), and as I stopped her from doing so, I discovered she had soaked up the map (though that didn't matter, as maps were everywhere) and soaked up her father's cell phone.

The solution I came up with was to take them straight to the Mad Tea Party to dry off the phone. It worked!

Frankly speaking, the worst concern of mine is the rude strangers. A pain of a woman purposely plowed a baby stroller over my feet because I compared her speaking a foreign language to the struggles a niece was having to communicate to me. Why that comparison offended, I don't have the slightest clue. Communication struggles are communication struggles.

Keep a sense of unconventional humor and don't lose your head. Most importantly, put yourself in their shoes. I've got a nephew whose parents do not think should ever travel because of the severity of his autism, and I think that those parents are overly paranoid. Nephew trusts me and my husband. We would love to take him to Disneyland or Disney World alongside our own children. Our own children are three infants and a five year old. They've not yet gone to WDW, though we plan on taking them between 2010 and 2012. Ideally, we'd like to experience the park before going on the maiden voyage of either the Disney Dreams Cruise Ship or the Disney Fantasy Cruise Ship. We'll cross that bridge in January 2011.

Generally speaking, Disney is terrific at accommodations. They surpass all other theme parks I've experienced or heard of. Disney has got a Gluten Free Casein Free menu for everything. Definitely take your nieces, Original Poster. You won't regret it and you'll want to go again! Of course, I second (or third or fourth or fifth) the recommendations found here. Definitely take a midday break with each day, for your sake and for the kiddos!

To anyone reading this who has questions, I offer you up my assistance and advice. Just ask!
 
Marina Del Rey,

Welcome, your first and second hand perceptions are very helpful to the NT parents of spectrum children, so I hope you continue for post (I facilitate and Aspergers/HFA advocacy and support group and once we broadened it to include adults on the it made a big difference).

Again welcome and thank you

bookwormde
 
Marina Del Rey,

Welcome, your first and second hand perceptions are very helpful to the NT parents of spectrum children, so I hope you continue for post (I facilitate and Aspergers/HFA advocacy and support group and once we broadened it to include adults on the it made a big difference).

Again welcome and thank you

bookwormde

Is your group online or IRL? I'm just wondering, because I'm starting to look for support/self advocacy resources for my DD, 9. And I completely agree with what you said to Marina Del Rey. Adults w/ HFA and Asperhers offer the best window into how my child thinks and perceives the world. That is more valuable than gold to me.
 














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