You know, I hate to say this, and I may get beat up on over it, but you sound like a BIG SNOB!!!!
Be happy that you can take your family on a Disney vacation - PERIOD! There are many out there who can't for whatever reason.
Then to basically say that you'll make yourself feel better by having a "proper" stay at another time? What is the difference where you lay your head to sleep?!?! All I'm ever in my room to do is sleep and shower. I'm there to see the parks and have a great vacation. Not sit in my Deluxe Concierge Level room.
You sound absolutely ridiculous in that post, I'm sorry. Please don't let those of us who enjoy our stay at a Value Resort get in your way.