Need some advice on Dating, please.......*BIG UPDATE ON PAGE 5*

[mudnuri]

Just saw your post and your age. Hold on your almost there. People between the ages of 16-26(28) shouldn't marry because their endorphins are too extreme. Wait a couple of years and you should safely be able to date and potentially find your LIFELONG soulmate. Good luck!

Dear lord its her 2nd date with the guy, she's not dress shopping......

Go out have a good time- but remember the 3rd date rule...

Brandy

 

[bizybea]

Still no news on how it went?

 

[zen1]

Bumping to get an update on how the date went!

Sorry, to keep everyone hanging. Just have been crazy with work this weekend. The 2nd date went pretty good! We had a nice dinner together and talked for about an hour and then walked around the mall together. Then called it a night. He gave me a hug when we met and when we said good bye again and said I will talk to you latter. He had a wedding to go to this weekend and I almost think that if I did not have anything going on, he was going to ask me if I wanted to go with him. We will just have to see what happens for our 3rd date. He is very nice to talk to and can be funny. But he does seam like he is un-sure of himself and kind of shy( at least right now, but that's just cause we don't know each other very well yet).

 

[LadyyRedd]

Came across this thread when I was cleaning out my subscriptions. Just curious how things turned out and if, by chance, you're still dating?



Kimya

 

[CathrynRose]

I just think all this over analyzing over one date and one email is ridiculous. They are just getting to know each other at this point. She emailed him. If he has any kind of guts/balls at all, he will ask her out again. In any successful relationship I've had, I have not had to bend over backwards to get the guy to ask me out again. She's expressed interest, he was lukewarm in his response. See if he has the guts and interest to pursue it. If not, is it really worth it? Like someone else said, most guys if they are interested, no matter how nervous they are, will rise to the occasion and pursue it. Why all this analyzing? I think it's stupid actually.

I go on this website occasionally, called askmen. Men talk about their dating lives and its very enlightening to get the male perspective. The first thing they would say...If he is really interested, You will know. You won't have to guess or ask or wonder or post about it. You will know, because one way or the other he will let his interest be known. And, another thing, if he was really interested, he would have called and set up a time, not given a very lukewarm, polite, response to an email.

Guys will go above and beyond the call of duty, when theyre interested. That lovely man in my siggy below wouldnt leave me ALONE! I was dating someone when I met him! He didnt care - he would-not-leave-me-alone!!! They'll wear you down, into going out with them! Wore me down so much, Ill be marrying him this summer!

On that note - it's hard to get back in the loop of things. I have a 33 y/o girlfriend who calls me up constantly and over analyzes everything a new guy says / does etc. It's easy to say - just kick back and let what happens, happen...until youre the one trying to kick back.