Could you work on the weekends?
I homeschooled for a while, but I still had to work.
It can be done.
OP hasn't responded to any of the suggestions that she get a job to raise the $300 she needs. A number of posters have suggested she could work weekends or nights when her dh is home, or have the older kids babysit the younger kids and work a few hours each week. This wouldn't preclude homeschooling.
I like this idea. I know many places, especially fast food, need people for lunch (10-2). She could home school in the morning, go to work and then finish in the afternoon.
If she worked 4 hours a day at minimum wage she could take home ~$20. If she does this three days a week she would have the money in just 5 weeks.
By the time OP found a weekend job, applied, was hired, went through training and received her first paycheck she'd have to take a week off for a family vacation and miss at least a weekend of work. How many employers are going to be willing to go through the expense of training someone who only wants to work 2-3 weekends and then needs one off and probably won't continue past that time?
Having the kids pitch in to help earn some extra spending money is a great idea. I don't think anyone suggested they go work in the basement of a factory for 12 hours a day sewing shoes. There's nothing wrong with a kid doing simple yard or house work to earn a few extra bucks. Yes I understand doing the GAD was work for them to earn their ticket, but letting them help out to earn some spending money would be along these same lines. Just make sure that whatever they earn is theirs to spend would be my suggestion.
By the time OP found a weekend job, applied, was hired, went through training and received her first paycheck she'd have to take a week off for a family vacation and miss at least a weekend of work. How many employers are going to be willing to go through the expense of training someone who only wants to work 2-3 weekends and then needs one off and probably won't continue past that time?
What is she going to do with the kids during this time? I'm not aware of any fast food places that provide onsite free childcare while you work the lunch shift.
I agree with you that it's great for the kids to earn their own spending money, except there is no money for the trip itself, so if the kids earn money it's going to go towards the campsite fees, etc.
The suggestions of kids babysitting, koolaid stand, yard work, etc. were for the kids to contribute to the $300 trip cost. I don't think the plan was for the kids to have any spending money for souvenirs, etc. I don't have a problem with that, but what you posted is not the situation here.
She wouldn't need daycare necessarily. The OP has a 14 and 13 year old and a number of posters suggested they babysit for other families to earn the $300 for the trip. The poster you quoted mentioned that these older kids could watch their siblings while mom worked. Even if it was a midday shift they could adjust their homeschool hours to accomodate it.
Don't you think the older kids could babysit the younger kids if mom was able to get a few hours of work? They are 14 and 13.![]()
I totally agree if I were in this situation I would have been considering this long before now. We planned our vacation back in June for the middle of Sept and from that moment on I've been socking away everything I could for the trip. I do believe that the kids shouldn't have to help earn money for gas, lodging, etc... if they earn money it should be for what they want. Now if they want to pay for the gas to get there great!I'm kidding of course.
My issue is she didn't ask what would I have done, she asked what could she do. I did not see where she asked to have her child raising choices or religion analyzed either. The situation I see here is someone that in my opinion should have planned better but my thoughts on that have nothing to do with what she could do now. Camp somewhere cheaper for a few nights, follow other advice given regarding the actual question she asked, and if the kids want to work to earn extra for themselves perfect. That's my advice. This is why I stated the money they earn should be spent on items they wish to purchase.
Oh I never criticized her homeschooling or religion choices. I still think the part time job thing might work out well for her. It sounds like their budget is tight all year round and let's face it we all breathe easier with a cushion, especially with kids. I just don't think selling things on ebay/craigslist is going to bring her $300 or she would have already done it, kwim? It didn't sound like she had that many items sitting around and it was just a matter of selling them. She really seemed like she needed a different way to earn money.
I think your suggestion of a cheaper campsite was a very good one. Maybe just two nights at Disney, and someplace else for the way down and the way back.![]()
Oh gosh I never meant that you were one of the posters commenting on her religion choices or schooling. I'm sorry because after rereading I do see how that could be inferred.I am simply irritated at those that did. I think working is a great suggestion and one that would have been great months ago. I just cannot think of an employer, unless she knows the owner, that would hire her knowing she needs a week off soon after she starts. Also it's possible that her religion or personal beliefs are one in which a woman shouldn't work outside of the home. Now I'm not going to get into my opinion on that, we could not only be here all night, but it has no benefit to this particular situation.
This could be why she hasn't responded to those suggestions or thought of it before now?
We have companies up here that have will take your stuff post it on Ebay, ship it out and then they take a portion of the profits and return the rest to you. They decide what the minimum that they are willing to take and you do the leg work.
So you get a lot of stuff that you don't have to buy and still be able to sell it and make money off their stuff. You can decide the split.
So, do you mean I take my stuff to them and they post it on ebay and sell it for me?
I guess I am not getting it. Wouldn't you make more just selling it yourself?
Dawn
What is she going to do with the kids during this time? I'm not aware of any fast food places that provide onsite free childcare while you work the lunch shift.
She had a 14 and 13 year old. I was babysitting 5 kids under the age of 8 by those ages. Do you think she never leaves them ever?Does she take all 6 to the store to get groceries?
You're right. Not all teens want or like to babysit. However, from the OP's previous posts it appears that her older children are used to caring for the younger ones. Much like the Duggar's "buddy system". Such expertise would be a selling point!It all depends on the kid. I have a 13 year old niece that is NOT ready to watch other kids. She just doesn't worry about anyone past herself. She stays with her nearly 6 year old brother for no longer than an hour because she is not ready to baby sit. Some 13 and 14 year old also don't want to baby-sit, and they shouldn't be expected to do so.