Well just an update:
Still no item in the mail, contacted seller and got an email from paypal showing a refund for the full amount. It says it is pending from paypal, and should take 3-5 days to get...
So my next question:
Is there still a chance it could disappear or is it really totally there for me? Since I don't have a paypal account, how will I get it out, or will it just show up on my credit card? The email is sort of ambiguous.
Thanks