Need Advice Over Major Friendship Conflict

[disneydance]

Ok so my now ex-best friend had been my best friend for 7years up to 11/20
So last time I said a word to her she broke my heart and made me cry for hours
So I hadnt been around her since she was just making rumor about me
So the rumors stopped about a week ago but I havent been talking to her over them
I havent said a word to her or had any contact with her till tommorrow when I wrote a note
Bassically what I put in the note was I'm real sorry I have been a jerk at times and I realize we cant be friends anymore but can we at least say hi and be around each other when others are there?
So the word is she responded by saying no I'll make to much drama
So heres the problem we have the same group of friends
I want to hang out with them and so does Katelyn
When ever I'm around them Katelyn always seems to find a way to show up in get in my way
I dont want to cause any drama so I'll just leave
Now I'm getting kinda annoyed since I dont approach the group of friends when shes there first
So why cant she respect that with me
What should I do I really want to spend time with them since they are my friends
But I dont want any drama so I just leave

Thanks so much for taking your time to help
Katie

 

[wilmabride'sdaughter]

I honestly don't know how i can help you in that sitation. My best idea would be for you to cget her on her own and talk to her quietly about everything. If she won't do that then i'm not sure what else there is you can do.

 

[JulielovesDisney]

There isn't really anything you can do, except try and talk to her about the situation. Maybe try and get to act civil. I'm sure your group of friends are feeling a strain too, because they want to hang out with both of you, but you two can't stand eachother. It looks like you and your exbff have to work things out alone.
Good luck!

 

[CutieEm]

I'm kind of in the same situation now. We hang out with the same group of friends, and they have to choose between u and the other person. In my case, they chose the other person. It makes you feel so alone...

My advice would be to maybe find some new friends. Idk, if that doesn't work then try talking to your friends =)

 

[XxCuriosityxX<3]

Personally, she doesn't seem worth the struggle.
Just ignore it, ignore her, soon she'll see it doesn't bother you and go onto her next fight. And ignore HER drama and rumors, its not worth getting into it.
You shouldn't care if shes there or not, just act like shes not even there, they are your friends too, she can't take them away from you.
Also, try to branch out, you'll find other friends too.
Thats all i can really say, good luck.

 

[Sparx]

the same thing happened to me in tenth grade.
i made new friends.
i've never been happier.

thats the best advice i have, sorry.