We just love the Outerbanks, especially an area called Duck. It has a beautiful beach, I collected at least 20 conch shells there last summer. Two places that I would recommend are the Sanderling Inn, it is very very nice and also the Hampton Inn, which is also nice. Sanderling has both an indoor and outdoor pool, Hampton Inn has a pool with a lazy river.
Things to do:
Beach, we usually spend our day there. It is great seeing the dolpins play.
Duck has bike paths, so you can bring bikes or rent them.
About 35 minutes away, there is a beach that you can only have 4 wheel vehicles. This is where you will see the wild ponies. You can also rent 4 wheel ATV's and go out with a guide, or you can take a guided van trip. You can also rent kyaks and jet skis.
There are many lighthouses on the outer banks and you can spend a day just seeing those.
Wright Brothers first flight took in Kitty Hawk and there is an area where you can walk around and see the largest sand dune and watch people hang gliding. Kids bring big pieces of cardboard and slide down themselves, it looks like alot of fun.
There are outlets in Nags Head, a Christmas shop in Manteo as well as the Weeping Radish Brewery which you can tour and have lunch.
There is also an Elizabethean (sp) garden and there is also an outdoor play called the Lost Colony. I have not seen it but have heard that others really like it.
Duck has really cute shops and great restaurants, our favorite is called Red Sky.
I just love this area and would not hesitate to vacation there. It is very family oriented. Right now, we are looking to buy something there, but oh those prices. I am just have to win the lottery first!