My poor baby has to eat cheese

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Perhaps they would like some wine with that cheese. Or perhaps the kids will actually learn a lesson and stop throwing the hot lunches around the cafeteria. I think the school made a great decision. :thumbsup2
No Soup for You: School Serves Up Cold Lunch As Punishment
by Amy Hatch
Bridgett Reed is upset that her child and other students at Atlantic City High School are being punished by only being served cheese sandwiches for lunch. Credit: Anthony Smedile, Press of Atlantic City

Some New Jersey high school students learned that revenge is a dish best served cold when they got nothing but cheese sandwiches for lunch as a punishment.

Cafeteria workers at Atlantic City High School served a limited menu of bread and cheese for two days after students there engaged in a food fight coordinated by cell phone, the Press of Atlantic City reports.

Superintendent Frederick Nickles tells the paper that when kids throw food, the school's policy is to supply only the basic lunch requirement.

"It's been the policy of the school board for many years that if there is a food-throwing incident, what occurs is we will supply the basic food requirement," Nickles said. "It's been effective over the years."

One parent was enraged by the punishment, and even snatched a cheese sandwich from the cafeteria to use as evidence when she confronted school officials.

"It's a prison meal," Bridgitte Reid tells the Press. "They can't do this."


Reid was most upset because she claims her daughter did not participate in the food fight that precipitated the punishment. "Why should my student be forced to eat this?" she tells the Press. "There's nothing on this. No mayo, no nothing. It's disgusting."

Nickels noted that students are welcome to bring a lunch from home. He adds that it is "unfortunate" that some students who did not participate in the food fight were subject to the bare-bones menu.
 
That is utterly ridiculous. A cheese sandwich never hurt anyone, unless a kid was allergic an then I am sure allowances would be made. Someone needs to put that parent in a time out. Snatched it out of the cafeteria as evidence, where do these people get this stuff:lmao:
 
I don't think it is fair for the kids that didn't do anything. They should have told the students that they would be serving this meal and they could have brought their own lunch if they didn't want it. My old school would punish the whole cafeteria even if it was just a handful of rowdy students and I never thought it was fair.

But anyways the mom was over-reacting.
 
In defense of the teachers/lunch monitors (and I can't believe I'm defending them- I rarely do) but it would be pretty hard to figure out who started the food fight and who participated and who didn't. If they are going to throw their food, guess they don't need so much. :teacher: Consequences for their actions! Lesson learned. Class dismissed.
 

I don't think it is fair for the kids that didn't do anything. They should have told the students that they would be serving this meal and they could have brought their own lunch if they didn't want it. My old school would punish the whole cafeteria even if it was just a handful of rowdy students and I never thought it was fair.

But anyways the mom was over-reacting.
They did give them the option of bringing their own lunch.
Nickels noted that students are welcome to bring a lunch from home. He adds that it is "unfortunate" that some students who did not participate in the food fight were subject to the bare-bones menu.
 
Where I live it's only the low income kids who get school lunch, and so they'd be the only ones punished by this. I think the school needs to come up with a consequence that applies to all the students in the school, or figure out which specific kids were involved, but to punish one demographic group and not others seems unfair.

If my kid actually got in a food fight in the lunch room, I'd be all for him being served something he didn't like (which wouldn't be a cheese sandwich with no mayo, that's a lunch box staple here), but if here were punished for something that other students did, while other kids weren't I'd be upset.
 
In defense of the teachers/lunch monitors (and I can't believe I'm defending them- I rarely do) but it would be pretty hard to figure out who started the food fight and who participated and who didn't. If they are going to throw their food, guess they don't need so much. :teacher: Consequences for their actions! Lesson learned. Class dismissed.

:thumbsup2

but then again, I'm a horrible person for teaching my daughter to be an adult, so what do I know?
 
Where I live it's only the low income kids who get school lunch, and so they'd be the only ones punished by this. I think the school needs to come up with a consequence that applies to all the students in the school, or figure out which specific kids were involved, but to punish one demographic group and not others seems unfair.

If my kid actually got in a food fight in the lunch room, I'd be all for him being served something he didn't like (which wouldn't be a cheese sandwich with no mayo, that's a lunch box staple here), but if here were punished for something that other students did, while other kids weren't I'd be upset.

This happened in Atlantic City, so chances are most of the kids at the school are eligible for free/reduced lunch. Sorry, I don't think it gives you a free pass to have a food fight just because you are on free lunch. And yes it stinks that all have to suffer, but perhaps a few days of a basic lunch will remind the throwers that they should appreciate the hot lunch they want back.

Free or not, they are getting fed. It's not like they are prohibiting them from eating lunch.
 
This happened in Atlantic City, so chances are most of the kids at the school are eligible for free/reduced lunch. Sorry, I don't think it gives you a free pass to have a food fight just because you are on free lunch. And yes it stinks that all have to suffer, but perhaps a few days of a basic lunch will remind the throwers that they should appreciate the hot lunch they want back.

Free or not, they are getting fed. It's not like they are prohibiting them from eating lunch.

But you're proposing the kids who can afford to bring lunch from home should get a free pass -- why is that OK?

If it's a school where everyone eats the school lunch (whether it's because they're all on free lunch, or because it's a ritzy private school like I used to attend where they required everyone to buy lunch) then I'm fine with it. If they knew that the kids throwing the lunch were all kids who bought school lunch, then I'd be OK with it. But if they're punishing half the kids, and not the other half, and which half you're in has nothing to do with whether or not you participated then no, I'm not OK with that. That's the effect that a punishment like this would have at the school where I teach or the one where I send my child.
 
Where I live it's only the low income kids who get school lunch, and so they'd be the only ones punished by this. I think the school needs to come up with a consequence that applies to all the students in the school, or figure out which specific kids were involved, but to punish one demographic group and not others seems unfair.

If my kid actually got in a food fight in the lunch room, I'd be all for him being served something he didn't like (which wouldn't be a cheese sandwich with no mayo, that's a lunch box staple here), but if here were punished for something that other students did, while other kids weren't I'd be upset.

What you are saying doesn't make sense to me. If the students were having a food fight with cafeteria food, then, if what you are saying is true about low income kids, then the proper kids are being punished, right? Those low income kids, who had the cafeteria food that was being thrown were the culprits, thus their punishment was deserved.
 
What you are saying doesn't make sense to me. If the students were having a food fight with cafeteria food, then, if what you are saying is true about low income kids, then the proper kids are being punished, right? Those low income kids, who had the cafeteria food that was being thrown were the culprits, thus their punishment was deserved.

But the article doesn't say that the students were only throwing cafeteria food, it simply says that they were throwing food -- could easily have been food brought from home.

If they know for sure that it was kids throwing cafeteria food, and only cafeteria food, then I might feel differently, but I sure don't see that in the article.
 
They did give them the option of bringing their own lunch.

Yes, but what if they decided they wanted to buy their lunch that day, then find out it was this cheese sandwich thing? Did they know beforehand?
 
No MAYO??? That's just wrong, how can these poor kids be expected to choke down a sandwich with NO MAYO???

Wow... parents are a constant source of amazement to me; on the other hand my DD would be DELIGHTED, she loves plain cheese sandwiches :thumbsup2
 
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Perhaps they would like some wine with that cheese. Or perhaps the kids will actually learn a lesson and stop throwing the hot lunches around the cafeteria. I think the school made a great decision. :thumbsup2

It's prison food

That will be good practice for the little darlings so later in life when they are IN PRISON they will know what to expect! :rolleyes1
 
Well, dd13 does not eat cheese (never has - crazy kid - she will now be in the same room as someone eating cheese, though), so she'd just make her lunch. Actually, our HS has an open campus for lunch, and no one eats in.
 
Guess I'm in the minority here.

I thought schools had to provide balanced meals? Yes, I realize they're not always healthy but I don't think a single cheese sandwich is enough sustenance to get you through the day.

What if the kid is allergic to dairy? They aren't gonna eat? I know around here, the school is required to give the child a lunch even if they forgot (or "forgot") their money to pay for it... so I'm surprised that they're allowed to do this. The blanket punishment things drives me batty, too, as I was always the well-behaved child and I would be livid if I were being punished because of someone else.

IMO, withholding food should not be a punishment. I have a feeling this won't go on for very long.

And obviously, kids make stupid decisions sometimes. Even good kids who know better. That doesn't mean they're all going to wind up in jail.
 
What if the kid is allergic to dairy? They aren't gonna eat?

Oh, they could eat:thumbsup2 What would happen would be that their parents would actually have to be a parent and make them a lunch.

They would have to get two pieces of bread, put something in between it that the child was not allergic to, and throw in some fruit and a drink.

Not difficult at all:goodvibes
 
This happened in Atlantic City, so chances are most of the kids at the school are eligible for free/reduced lunch.

And most of the parents have enough money for smokes and booze:thumbsup2

They also get food stamps and WIC, yet can't make a lunch for their children:confused3
 
Oh, they could eat:thumbsup2 What would happen would be that their parents would actually have to be a parent and make them a lunch.

They would have to get two pieces of bread, put something in between it that the child was not allergic to, and throw in some fruit and a drink.

Not difficult at all:goodvibes

And most of the parents have enough money for smokes and booze:thumbsup2

They also get food stamps and WIC, yet can't make a lunch for their children:confused3

Well, I would comment but since you obviously know every single one of these parents personally I guess there really isn't much point in continuing the discussion.
 






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