I absolutely agree that this poor behavior on the part of those two CMs needs to be reported right to the top management of DVC. If my feeble memory serves, Jim Lewis was our very first advisor when our family purchased back in 1991...he was wonderful, knowledgeable, and patient since my DH couldn't quite wrap his head around the idea of timeshare "points" as opposed to fixed weeks. The only property at the time was OKW, but I'm sure he would have never tried to trash OKW when BCV and BWV were open for sales. The type of behavior cited by the OP is totally unprofessional and counter to the image that DVC tries to cultivate. I agree with the poster who stated that the CMs should be fired...ASAP!
My point is that Jim Lewis knows the DVC product and how to treat the people who pay their salaries. A member is a member! Whether we buy from DVC directly or from a resale agent, we all pay the same dues per point and those dues pay, in part, for DVDMC guides/advisors! I'm sure, just as regular real estate agents would, the guides/advisors receive a commission for every sale...with a resale, that commission goes to the resale agent (ie. The Timeshare Store or other secondary market source).
There are very few extra incentives left for DVC to add to entice people to buy directly from them...a cruise (nice, but not everyone loves cruising)...a Disney gift card (again nice, but unless it's worth > $5000, it's not enough considering the difference in price between direct and resale)...up to $10 or so off per point (also nice, but not enough to compete realistically with a resale contract, especially now with the per point cost soon increasing to $120!)...free APs (also nice, but not everyone goes frequently enough to maximize use of them before they expire). Now, if they threw ALL of these incentives in to EVERY direct sale, I might consider buying direct, but would not purchase for any single one of them.
The ONLY advantages that I can see would be that your points are immediately available to use (ie. "in the system" for immediate booking) and, depending on the use years available, they might be able to allow you use of this year's (or even last year's) points without paying the dues for the extra points. And yes, if you wait list, you might be able to buy small contracts at the sold-out resorts, but you'll be paying the going rate/point with no discounts.
When my family first purchased, we were given complimentary passes for our whole family to go to the three major parks (there was no Animal Kingdom then) for the first 7 years! Now that's an incentive to buy direct and would definitely make up for some of the difference between retail vs. resale. We added on several times directly from DVC and went 3 times a year during those 7 years! They also used to offer a 10% discount on ALL admission media (not just APs), so after that incentive went away, we still got preferential pricing for our passes...this offset some of the cost. Since then, we've added on ONLY RESALE! We simply can't justify paying the direct premium for very little advantage over resale.

JMHO!
To the OP...SSR is a great choice...My family has stayed there and loved it! Don't let a couple of Snow White's evil apples spoil what will turn out to be a great purchase for your future vacations! My family has NEVER regretted purchasing our points and I'm always looking for more...it's called "addonitis" and MANY of us on the DisBoards are hopelessly addicted!