I've convinced dh that we should get AP's for our next trips(s). But now I'm starting to wonder how to handle the actual visits...can you tell I think waaayyy too much lol?
We were originally going to go Nov 9-15, and then visit a few times for long weekends during the spring/summer. But now I'm thinking of doing more long weekends and skipping the week-long trip.
We live in the SF bay area, so we could drive down after school/work on Friday and come home on Sunday eve. That way there'd be no school missed kwim. Dh is worried that, although a fun getaway, it won't be relaxing. He's afraid we'll always feel rushed to get as much done as possible. But with a week-long trip we could do things at a more leisurely pace. While I agree w/that assessment, I personally need my DLR fix! The girls are young, so missing a few days of school will not be totally detrimental. We both agree on that. We feel family time is important too kwim.
Ugh...I just don't know.
I don't have much to look forward to and we don't "do" much kwim. I think the planning, for me, is part of the whole experience. It gives me something to do that's not "everyday" and "status quo".
THANKS! I think this has become more of a diary than a question lol!
We were originally going to go Nov 9-15, and then visit a few times for long weekends during the spring/summer. But now I'm thinking of doing more long weekends and skipping the week-long trip.
We live in the SF bay area, so we could drive down after school/work on Friday and come home on Sunday eve. That way there'd be no school missed kwim. Dh is worried that, although a fun getaway, it won't be relaxing. He's afraid we'll always feel rushed to get as much done as possible. But with a week-long trip we could do things at a more leisurely pace. While I agree w/that assessment, I personally need my DLR fix! The girls are young, so missing a few days of school will not be totally detrimental. We both agree on that. We feel family time is important too kwim.
Ugh...I just don't know.
I don't have much to look forward to and we don't "do" much kwim. I think the planning, for me, is part of the whole experience. It gives me something to do that's not "everyday" and "status quo".
THANKS! I think this has become more of a diary than a question lol!